Guy Trouble

[relationshipa1]

Theres this guy that I have worked with for a little over six months now. He has told me that he likes me and he also knows that I like him, but we have never took it far enough to see where the relationship would go. We would text each other all the time but we’ve only hung out once. He left work to go back to college and when that happened, we stopped texting each other. Now that he’s back the only time we do talk is at work. When we’re around other people, we talk to each other, but when it’s just me and him we’re quiet around each other and it always feels akward. He seems to be able to have normal conversations with other girls, but when he’s around me, he’s quiet. Is it akward between us because we didn’t take our relationship to the next level or is it because of that that we now seem to kinda resent each other? I would really appreciate someone else’s perspective.

[April Masini]

If he likes you enough to date you, he’ll ask you out. He may feel awkward with you because he no longer wants to ask you out or because there’s something else going on in his life that you don’t know about. But what’s more important is why [b][i]you[/i][/b] feel awkward around him. I think you feel awkward because you’re angry that he isn’t asking you out on a date.

My advice to you is to focus your energy elsewhere, and consider other guys instead of him. If he ever does decide to ask you out, he knows how to reach you, but in the meantime, don’t sit around waiting for him. Get out in the world and switch up your life outside of work so that you’re in new situations where you’ll meet new people — and among them, new men, any one of whom may be Mr. Right. 🙂

[optimistvik]

Usually a feel of akwardness comes only when we feel guilty of some sort so dont give him a thought. just divert your thoughts.

[April Masini]

Happy New Year! Let me know how things are going for you. 😉

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