He broke it off, I don’t understand!!!

[relationshipa1]

Hi
My boyfriend just recently broke up with from being in a relationship for 2 years. We had a long distance relationship, and we play a video game together. He supported me financially due to some crisis in my life. Due to these crisis it lead me into depression. I had some suicidial moments, but also moments of insecuirty and jealousy. I love him with my whole heart, and I never wanted him to leave. He had planned on moving to where I live, but he said I was selfish after he made me dependant off him. I believe he thought he could fix me, but only I can fix myself. I feel so lost and devestated, he was my one, we had future plans of marriage, and children. And now it’s all gone. I am alone over 1k miles away from him. Not knowing what to do, I want him back and I was even of thinking of moving. But it’s all so complicated, I don’t understand how he could just in a second stop loving me. Please someone give me some insight. I am desperate for advice. I don’t need his money. I can make it on my own. All I want is him to love.

[ankit]

hey girl,i understand what you are felling right now , but this is life . You have to bear all this . See , don’t matter how much you love him but if he don’t to live his life with you , better you stay away . Suppose after marriage he do this to you then what you do . So,its better to ask him once otherwise move on in life .Time will heal all wounds .
Don’t worry , have faith.

[kai]

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[April Masini]

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