My girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year. We are both in our early 20s and go to college. She recently told me that she had made a promise back in high school that she had forgot about to another guy and the guy was asking for that promise. I guess the promise was that she said she would have sex with him and take his virginity from him if he was still a virgin by 21. My GF always keeps a promise… She said she wants to take a break for a night. She said she just wants to get it over with, but the guy says he wants to hang out as well and not just have sex because that’s just awkward… She says she likes me because i give her “freedom” and i don’t restrict her from doing anything, which is true. I hardly get mad at her, only sometimes. My thing is, and i have told her many times is that i am not going to restrict or tell anyone what to do, they have a brain, and they should be able to decide for themselves whats right and whats wrong. I also want to mention that we had a talk about Breaks a few months ago and agreed that breaks are only for people who want to have sex with someone else and not consider that cheating… What do i do. I feel really betrayed and furious, and at the same time im not going to tell her what to do. She has to make up her mind and be responsible for her actions.
I don’t know if this info comes to any use but she sometimes tells me: that i deserve better, that she doesn’t know what she would do if we broke up, and that she isn’t good with relationships.
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