HELP APRIL…just want the TRUTH!

[smartsexy007]

April,
[b]First let me say your book is great! I recommend it to ALL my friends and lend it out alot 🙂 I[/b] am a 43yr old mom of a 7yr old who works out religiously and is in better shape than most woman 1/2 my age. Most men think I’m 37 yrs old. I was married for 5 yrs…now divorced for 5 years. My x-husband is not very involved (maybe every other weekend visits with my daughter) and financially contributes nothing towards my daughters well being. (He is an alcoholic which contributed to the demise of our relationship) I am very fortunate to have a great job and own my condo as well. I don’t have problems meeting men and have ALWAYS been involved in long term relationships most of my life. My last relationship ended in Sept 2008. I broke up with a guy I was seeing for over a year (who was an attorney) and had a 7 year old daughter at the time. She was 3 yrs older than my daughter. He was divorced 2 yrs when i met him and had never introduced ANYONE to his daughter….until I came along. Needless to say I was very much in love with him but the child was running our relationship and he felt lots of guilt. The x-wife felt very threatned by me and used the child to minipulate the situation. He was the “bad guy” with the girlfriend. The child was very jealous of my daughter and thought we were “stealing her daddy” from her. My boyfriend starting acting strange for a few months…dropping weight…not sleeping until I found out he was doing cocaine! That ended things pretty damm quickly and I have never heard from him since. I started dating a couple of younger guys with no kids but found out they really were not looking for the same things I was…which is to get married again possibly and be in a committed relationship. I was on a date with a guy when I met the owner of this restaurant I went to. (He said he fell in love with my confidence! – Thanks April!) My date never worked out but I went on a date with the owner and (a friend of mine had known him a long time and said he was a good guy) She also told me he was divorced with 2 girls 21 and 23. I have been seeing him for 3 months and I like him alot but he told me after two dates that he is legally separated and his divorce is pending the sale of his house. He got separated in Feb 09′. His daughter’s live with him and the wife comes in and out of the house all the time and has most of her clothes their as well. She can’t afford her own apt so I assume she is still living there from time to time. He is 100% Italian…(not usually what I date) and the girls get daddy to pay for everything and live home for free! I really like this man alot despite not being able to go to “his” place because of the situation…but I’m afraid of putting all my eggs in one basket. I want to date other men without telling him but on a casual basis so I don’t get burned again. Obviously if he found out he would be really upset but I don’t know what to do?! – I’m not looking to sleep with anyone else but I just think if I date other men I can keep this situation in perspective. He was married for 24yrs and he said he liked being married and would do it again. He is also 4yrs older than me (not what i usually date) and doesn’t have the same activity level I have but is going to the gym more often now and we workout together at least 2x a week. If I would have known his “situation” before I would have not gotten involved with him but…I feel like…been there done that 5yrs ago!! can you help put things in perspective for me?!

[April Masini]

First of all, I’m so glad that my book helped you! Thank you for your kind words about the book. I’m always glad to hear feedback, and when Think & Date Like A Man has helped someone like you have a better life, it’s a good day for me! So, thank you.

As you’ve figured out, dating other single parents, when you’re a single parent, is a [i]lot[/i] more challenging than dating without kids! I’d love to help you see patterns in the men you get involved with. Your alcoholic husband, the cocaine using ex-boyfriend, and now this guy who seems to have 3 women running his life even though he’s advertising himself as single! Hmmm….All three men seem to be dependent — one on alcohol, one on drugs and one on women. And you sound like you’re very, very independent, so it’s no wonder these guys cling to you. You prop them up, and they find your strength and confidence attractive. But the question is why are you attracted to them? What part of you is subconsciously looking to be in charge? Or, put differently, you’re so on top of things on the surface — are you afraid of being the less dominant person in the relationship?

I’m not suggesting that you weaken yourself or do anything in your own personal life differently. What I am suggesting is that you look for a man who’s more alpha than you are! Strong women rock, but they need even stronger men. With a man who not only fends for himself, but fends for his woman — and her daughter, you’re going to be in a whole new arena, and it’s going to be great.

One of the main points in my book is that men love to chase women, and they need to chase them in order to feel good about themselves. Likewise, you need to be the grand prize that is giving chase! When a great guy finally gets you, he’s going to have had to run very hard and fast! And you will be worth it, as will he to you. In fact, while I think your working out, working your career, caring for your daughter single-handedly, is all fabulous and admirable….with a very strong man, you may not feel you have to do all that. In fact, you may have been fending for yourself and on your own for so long that you’re going to feel very strange if a great guy wants to take care of you. Go on the adventure.

I’m going to spend a very little time telling you why this guy you’re considering isn’t right (because this really isn’t about him): He’s not divorced. In this real estate market and economic climate, it may be yet another year or more before his house is sold at a price he and his wife agree to, and the divorce that’s been contingent upon the home’s sale has been executed. And there’s a little legal device called bifurcation which would allow him to be legally divorced right this minute, with the property from the marriage divvied up at a later date — but he’s still married. His wife coming in and out of his house all the time, doesn’t bode well for a new woman in his life, and the adult children living with him and having him take care of them is also competition for you (or any other woman he dates). If you walk down this road, you’re walking into a snake pit. You will never be top banana in that house because this guy will never make you top banana. He’s not strong enough. And your daughter will be the poor Cinderella to the two evil stepdaughters. So…..drop him. He’s not for you.

Get out there and think about looking for a guy who’s naturally aggressive and who loves to win through hard work, just like you.

And let me know how it goes!

[smartsexy007]

April,

I have spent the past week or so digesting your advice and would like to follow up and shed some light on a few things you mentioned. Dating other single parents with kids is a nightmare! I’m going to be blunt about that because dating is challenging enough! Another issue is the pattern of men I get involved with. Most need “rescuing” and I am trying to break out of that pattern and find an “alpha” male who has his life together and is strong-er than me. I would love nothing more than a “take control kinda guy” so I can be the less dominant person in the relationship…I HATE making decisions and being “in charge” all the time but I’m forced to do it because if I don’t know one else will.

In regard to my boyfriend…(who is only legally separated and as you said “advertising himself as single”) you are definately correct about that but one of the things that attracted me to him is that he isn’t what I usually date…older than me and 100% Italian. Not to stereotype but most Italian men I know are very strong and some controlling. So in a way I think I was subconsciously looking for that alpha male. Plus one of the things he said to me after a few months of dating him was that he wanted to take care of me and my daughter. April…no guy has EVER said that to me.

The other night I had a chat with my boyfriend and realized that the bottom line is their is NO POSSIBLE way I can stay with this man if selling his home is contingent upon his divorce. So I asked him point blank…is your divorce contingent upon you selling your home or paying your x-wife off?.. and he said NO! He mentioned the legal term you told me about and said he has a one year waiting period before filing for divorce and he is executing it on the anniversary date which is March 8th. Moreover… I have met his mom and all his brothers and sister (who was recently up from Florida). He and I also attended a cousins wedding last month and his very close friends (mostly married friends who are still friends with his x-wife ) tell me he is so happy that he met me and how crazy he is about me. The x-wife has a boyfriend for a while…but your right…I still have the issue of her coming and going in the house until he is divorced or he pays her off. And the girls…well that’s an easy one as far as I’m concerned…since I have lots of experience in this area…if he doesn’t fight for me it will be over. Being a restaurant owner he knows alot of people and everyone who has heard we are dating tells me…he’s such a great guy…

My last questions are…
Is it so wrong to continue dating to see where this could possibly go?
Is it wrong to accept an invitation out with another guy (letting them know I am dating) if an opportunity presents itself?

Its all about the chase April…right?

[April Masini]

I can see how much work you’re doing on yourself, and it’s a pleasure to see — so pat yourself on the back for me! 😀

Now, as far as dating as a single parent being a nightmare, it doesn’t have to be. You’re enabling your daughter’s father by allowing him to not be responsible for a custody schedule and not being responsible for child support. You may think you’re being nice, but you’re not. The reality is if you get a court ordered custody schedule where he is required by law to take your daughter to his home every other weekend from Friday after school until Monday morning when he drives her to school, and maybe even, eventually, one night a week, also, from after school until the next morning when he drives her to school, your daughter gets [b]stability[/b] in a schedule. She’ll know when she will see her father. In addition to the stability, consistency and the valuable relationship your daughter will get to have with her dad as a result of a court ordered custody schedule, it will give you [i]a break! [/i]Single parents [i]need[/i] this break. During this break, you will be able to sleep if your need to, get errands done, and, yes, even date! This break also shields your daughter from your dating life. If she’s with dad for the weekend, she doesn’t have to be a party to your dates, and that’s another gift to her.

So, please stop enabling your ex-husband, even after the divorce. Get a custody schedule, and stick to it! Your dating as a single parent nightmare may even turn into a good dream! 🙂

As for your hating to make decisions for a guy and be in charge all the time — [i]just stop doing it[/i]. You’re not being forced into doing it. [i]Nobody[/i] is forcing you. This is behavior you have to learn to modify. So, next time you see a situation where the man should be doing something, but isn’t…don’t open your mouth. Don’t pick up a phone. Don’t run to the store — or do whatever you feel needs to be done. Don’t make the decision. Let a few things fall apart. And watch what happens next.

First of all, the guy gets to see the situation fall apart. You may be preempting his ability to see a problem because you’re so on it, you fix things before other people see the decisions or problems at hand. Second, you take away the chance for the man to see you be disappointed or hurt or angry when something doesn’t get done. How is he possibly going to get to know you if you don’t allow him to? If he sees how upset you are that he didn’t do something, then he has an opportunity to change [i]his own[/i] behavior — and be the hero next time around!

As far as your older, Italian boyfriend, I think you’ve got trouble on your hands. Regardless of whether or not he’s divorced, he continues to encourage his ex-wife and his adult, single daughters who live with him, to be a part of his life — in his very own home. Even when divorcing couples are in the process of separating, they respect each other’s homes and boundaries. Your boyfriend doesn’t have that boundary with the other women in his life. You’re going to have trouble establishing your own place in his life and I don’t think that you’re going to be happy until you feel like you’re number one, which you should be if you marry him. I think he won’t be able to tell his ex-wife and adult children that you come first, and you’re going to be the cause and/or the subject of a blow up. Your little girl is going to be a party to this.

Don’t be seduced by his friends and family complimenting you. You have a history of taking care of other people and even enabling them. For a change, you need to put yourself (and your daughter) first.

So since you don’t want to break up with this guy right now, I think your idea of dating other men at the same time, to keep your options open is a great idea. If and when your older, Italian boyfriend finds out that he’s no longer the only man you’re dating, don’t be defensive. Tell him without any venom in your voice, that you love him, but you realize he’s got so many other adult women he’s taking care of that you will never feel like you’re the love of his life living in his house with his adult children living there and his wife traipsing in and out (and don’t fool yourself — as long as the adult daughters are living in his home, they have every right in the world to have their mother come into the house as their guests, just as they would any other friend or relative) of the house. Don’t give him an ultimatum. Don’t tell him what to do. Don’t fix the situation. Just tell him why you’re dating other men — because you want to be the love of someone’s life and you want to be the woman that they would do anything for to make their own — and that doesn’t mean just giving lip service to it. It means walking the walk.

Hope that helps! Let me know what happens.

[smartsexy007]

Hi April,

Its been a while since my last post…needless to say I have been very busy following up on your last bit of advice you gave me and decided to let you know how things are going. First off…[u]for everyone that has read your book I encourage people to go back and re-read it over again.[/u] Its funny that sometimes you need to drill stuff into your head to finally put it into practice! I’ve become the preacher of your ‘best practices’ among my girlfriends who are constantly making the SAME mistakes over and over with men. O.K. now onto the juicy stuff…

I got a custody schedule in order so my daughter and I can live a sane life and things are a bit better with juggling my x-husbands demands to see his daughter and my need to have a life! As far as my Italian boyfriend Anthony (who is still living with his x-wife and daughters)…i got rid of him. You were soooo right about me doing EVERYTHING all the time. You were so exact with your advice that my boyfriends BEST friend who adores me pulled me aside one day and said – I see your frustration with Anthony…do yourself a favor and STOP doing for him…planning stuff e.t.c. So I did and what happened is that he didn’t step up at all!! He just let things die. So I did as well because I realized he didn’t care enough about me to pursue me and who wants that!?

So here comes the interesting part…I re-connected with an old friend I have known for over 20 years a few weeks after I broke up with Anthony. I never dated him but we used to work together. I was always in a relationship and he was always dating someone. I think we were always attracted to one another but I was not the type to get involved with people I worked with. I saw him one day and asked how things were going and he told me he is almost divorced. I was so surprised! He was married to a (woman who was doctor) for 11yrs and they have 2 children (5yrs old and 8yr old) A mutual friend told me his wife is cheating on him and didn’t even want to try and work things out. He doesn’t believe this to be true but said time will tell. He asked me to come by his apartment one night and we chatted for 5hrs or so. Caught up on lots of stuff and told me what he has been up to for the past 11yrs. He didn’t try anything and I truly had a good time. I told him he needs to get out and date and he didn’t seem so thrilled with that. I invited him out one night to see a band perform and we had a great time. After we went salsa dancing (yes he is Latino.. ) and we had a blast. After a few dates, dinners and such he spills his guts about always wanting to be with me and at this point is ALWAYS calling me, sending me cute texts and taking me out all the time. Our chemistry is like nothing I have ever experienced with anyone and after being intimate with him there is NO WAY his wife was cheating unless it was with a woman! I NEVER call him. Its a GREAT feeling to have someone chase you all the time! He gave me $2,000 dollars the other day and told me to book us a trip somewhere warm as a birthday gift and let him know if I need more money?! I am trying to keep things in perspective but my question is how do I NOT become the transition person in this process while awaiting the finality of his divorce in May? I want this to last!…he said he never thought we would have evolved into a relationship but that I make him happy and he looks forward to being with me a lot! I am not always available to him and I don’t always answer my phone when he calls. I also told him whenever he needs some time alone to let me know and I’m good with that. Please help!

[April Masini]

First of all… (wait for it) …. APPLAUSE!! You did a great job in taking care of yourself and your dead end situation with Anthony. I know how much work you had to do to get where you are — way more than comes across on the page, and I’m proud of you! I’m glad you were able to do the right thing (for both of you and your daughter) and stop doing so much for the ex-boyfriend so that you could then see that he wasn’t really there for you — and then exit into a better life! 😀

And thank you again for your compliments about my book. I’m so glad it works for you and your girlfriends. Re-reading it is a great idea. We all need reminders to stay on track when it comes to healthy dating behavior.

As for your new relationship, there is no guarantee that you are not the rebound relationship for your new boyfriend, especially since he’s not divorced yet. However….there are many, many men, especially those who have been cheated on in their first marriages (and trust me — just because he’s good in bed does NOT mean his wife didn’t cheat on him, so disavow yourself of that myth) who find that they want to replace their “missing part” — their wife — with someone new, and don’t feel the need to date around. It sounds like your boyfriend is going to be ready to remarry right away. It’s become a statistic that divorced men remarry much more quickly than divorced women, so don’t freak out that you may be his rebound girlfriend. You may — but you may not. My advice is to stay your course with him, abide by my Think & Date Like A Man rules, and keep checking yourself to make sure you remain the prize he has to chase — and not the booby prize he has to extricate himself from.

[smartsexy007]

Hi April,

Its been over a year since my last update and I am still dating my boyfriend who finally got his divorce in March of this year. (We have been together since Oct 2009)

Remember we talked about the possibilities of being the “rebound” relationship or possibly the one he would remain with….well…a couple of things have changed since his divorce and I’m not sure which direction if any this relationship is going. Very recently my boyfriends Uncle (took his own life) and died. My boyfriend has recently (last 3 weeks) taken over his Uncle’s business with his Aunt. He always wanted to run the business but he worked for his Uncle a few times and they always fought so my boyfriend could’nt work there anymore. (His Aunt and Uncle have no children…so he was like a son to them) I used to work for his Aunt in my 20’s and see her just about every day while walking through my town…she is very nice but EXTREMELY NEEDY…especially now! (This is where the problem comes in…)
Since all these changes have taken place my relationship has gone from bad to worse. We wrote a business plan together to open a retail business in Sept/Oct.2011. Although we were not sure of the particulars I scheduled a meeting with an attorney to draw up papers (it never happened) because his Uncle died and I subsequently lost my job a few weeks ago. Before this all happened he was day trading and plotting our next move with the store. All the while he didn’t have a full time job he would text me g’morning just about everyday…we were able to spend time together at the gym…have dinner together at least 2x a week and just hang out at home and relax once in a while. I am happy for him because running and or owning a business has been his dream forever. Last week he sat down with his Aunt to talk about a partnership and they are now consulting attorneys to draw up papers. . The ISSUE IS I FEEL LIKE CRAP!!! 😥 All he talks about is himself, his aunt is texting him every morning…(I don’t get texts in the mornings anymore) he meets her for breakfast, dinner etc …all he talks about is his Aunt and the business. He has not spent much time with me and I’m NOT CHASING HIM! I recalled excerpts in your book when you say be the prize…don’t be so available…but its hard especially now without me working…I told him recently that we have no balance in our lives…He calls me to do stuff last minute and I feel like when he is not working or has his kids he ‘fits’ me in his schedule!! I’m so mad that he hasn’t said anything about our business plan I have decided that the only way to open my business is to sell my apt (and downsize) which I have been thinking about for a while. I have not shared any of this with him yet and I’m not sure I want to! I feel so lost..I go to the gym EVERYDAY and work out my frustrations about all this crap. This upcoming holiday weekend he doesn’t have his kids but has said nothing about doing anything. I thought about what YOU would do or say ….so I made plans to go down to the jersey shore and visit a friend the entire weekend. I didn’t say anything to him yet…how do I let him know I’m not going to “hang ” around and wait for him to do stuff but that I want to be with him?! I feel like I’m starting all over with this relationship AGAIN! UGHHH HELP!

[April Masini]

One of the behaviors I’d like to encourage you to let go is[i] saving[/i] these guys you date. By drawing up a business plan and getting an attorney for the two of you to work on a business together, you were taking the lead and (gulp) taking care of him. You were taking the male role in the relationship. It would have been better for you to let him be the hero instead of taking what sounds like the lead in the business relationship. In fact, I’d recommend you don’t get into business with a boyfriend, at all, if possible.

Remember the guy who fell in love with you? He was the one who handed you $2,000 and said, go book us a vacation. He felt like the prince who was giving you this great treat. That’s the dynamic you need to aim for — allowing him to take care of you because that’s when a guy feels like “the man” and that’s when he feels best about himself. Somewhere along the line that dynamic changed. You had the same feeling when your Italian boyfriend said he wanted to take care of you and your daughter. You liked that and these guys liked being that person for you. The last boyfriend didn’t have the tools to follow through on that promise, but so far, this guy seems like he does — only not on your terms!

I didn’t know that your boyfriend stayed home and did day trading as a job until recently. It sounds like although you’ve been dating since 2009, he’s only been divorced for 2 months and now he’s got this exciting business partnership with his needy aunt starting up, and he’s got a lot of changes in his life — and you’re feeling left out. It doesn’t sound like his aunt dislikes you or doesn’t want you in his life. More likely, she’s bereft that her husband committed suicide and is grateful and yes, needly, for her nephew’s business energy and company. If you start competing with her, at least one of you (and possibly two or all three of you) will ultimately lose out. In fact, this dynamic is sounding a lot like your Italian boyfriend and the jealousy/competition you felt with his ex-wife and grown daughters.

It’s entirely possible that subconsciously, you’re looking for men who are controllable — because you’re comfortable controlling them. When you lose control, you get upset, uncomfortable, angry — and you throw in the towel. If that resonates for you, consider it to be a problem you need to face.

I know you “feel like crap”, but he hasn’t done anything terrible to you. His life is in transition — but you wanted him to get divorced, and you wanted him to run a business (only with you, not him). Don’t sabotage things. Instead sit in this and decide if the business you now want to start yourself is one you’ve dreamt of or one you’re going to start up as a way of retaliating and/or competing with him and his aunt. 😕 Consider adjusting your behavior and your role in this relationship so that you can try and be the vixen, the seductress, and the woman who wields power because she’s the woman — not the one with the attorney and the business plan!

[smartsexy007]

Hi April – It’s been 3 months since my last post and a lot has been happening in my relationship that I feel I am now at a crossroads. I took your advice and tried to be more aware of NOT taking the lead in my relationship. I have been concentrating on myself and looking for gainful employment for the last 3.5 months.

Unfortunately…a few months ago my boyfriends Aunt told him she wants to run her business alone without him. He was in complete an utter SHOCK! She was a public relations figure in the store for many years while her husband did everything. She knew nothing about running the business. He left the store four weeks ago boasting that she will come to her senses and be calling him back begging him to return. (I felt like he was going through his divorce all over again!) Just as he told me he had no clue about his divorce…he was definitely not prepared for this.
He then asked me about “our” business plan for the retail store. I told him it wasn’t a good idea right now given the economic climate and that I didn’t think it was a good idea for us to start anything together. I needed to continue to find a job to get back on my feet and that he should consider doing the same thing till he decides what he really wants to do. His reply was “I’m not working for anyone but myself”. He did approach a competitor in the area and spoke about working together but they said the business isn’t what it used to be and they don’t have any plans to expand their business or take on another partner now.

I then learned a few weeks after this fiasco happened that when my boyfriends Aunt walked him out of the building she had a locksmith waiting around the corner to change ALL the locks. It was very clear to me that there was NO WAY she was taking him back. I had one of his friends he worked with at the store tell him this because I felt it was hurtful coming from me but more importantly I wanted him to realize that the reality was he wasn’t going back…no matter how his ego felt and he needed to move on. Truth be told…be careful what you wish for because sometimes it’s not what it’s cracked up to be!!

Moreover, in the 14 weeks he worked at the store he took the business out of the red and it was becoming profitable. During this time his Aunt was not paying him. They agreed that whatever money he earned would be put towards the price they agreed upon when he decided to “buy in”. His Aunt was also living well above her means and her husband did not leave her with hardly any money or a life insurance policy. My boyfriend is living on the 3K a month in alimony he gets from his divorce settlement (May 31st) which he will only receive for 3yrs. (He has about 125k from his divorce) He has sent his Aunt numerous emails about the money she owes him and he has not received a dime. He has nothing in writing only the testimony of his fellow workers who are still employed and worked with him for those 14 weeks. His Aunt says she is going to work it out with him but nothing ever happens and he has not seen a dime!

In the past few weeks my boyfriend went from playing golf 2x a week to playing golf 5x a week. I have seen no indication of looking for a job or formulating any kind of plan to find gainful employment. My friends tell me he is used to be taken care (because his wife was a doctor making over 500k a year) although he still continues to pay for everything when we go out. His day trading (I call it gambling since he has no formal experience) has stopped since the market has been so volatile he can’t afford to lose money with no money coming in!

I am focusing on myself and my daughter and I feel confident I will land a job soon. I am dating my boyfriend 2 yrs in October and I feel as though I’m on a roller coaster going nowhere.

Do I sit back and watch the movie?! He is my best friend and I love him but my mother used to say all the time…Love doesn’t pay the rent!
My friends say he wasn’t very motivated during his 12yr marriage to set himself up in a “career” what makes you think he’s going to do it now? I guess I feel he will excel because he doesn’t have a spouse to share expenses or provide another means of income. He has no parents or anyone else to rely on except himself to provide the lifestyle he is accustomed to. I am a positive person who believes that you shouldn’t bail on people when they need you most but I also believe that you can lead a horse to water but you can’t make him drink! LOL What do you think about all of this?!

[April Masini]

It’s time for you to see the pattern in your boyfriend picking. You keep picking men who have dependency issues. (And you’re right that the day trading can be a form of gambling.) I had to stop short when you said that your boyfriend is receiving alimony from his ex-wife. 😯 How can you expect a man to feel strong and good about himself when he’s in that position? 😕 And if he does feel good about himself in that position, then you know you’ve got a guy who is looking for women to support him — and this is EXACTLY who [i]you[/i] need to run from. 😳 It sounds like his ex-wife supported him, and he’s looking for someone else to, too. To be fair, he did make some gestures that appeared to be stabs at independence, but in the bigger picture, they had more to do with potential than real character. His interest in his aunt’s business is further proof of that. And now that he’s out of work, golfing five times a week and not looking for a job are further pieces of evidence that you’ve got a man who isn’t interested in taking care of business.

It’s time for you to let go. This guy isn’t right for you. I want you to focus on finding a man who is strong and self-reliant. Don’t get involved until you know that all his ducks line up in a row. I know it’s hard to let go, but the sooner you do it, the sooner your own life will be lighter and you’ll be able to enhance it with Mr. Right. You may love him, but he’s not right for you. He’s not right for your daughter as a future step-dad. And frankly, you’re not right for him, either. 😥

Please let me know how it goes — you’re going to get it right (I know it) — but it’s going to take some more work on your part. You’ve done so much, you have to keep going. 😉

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