Help me out to bring her back

[countrymusicgirl]

Okay, so a couple weeks ago, this guy I work with told one of my best friends that he kinda liked me and was wondering if I was single. My friend told him that I am single and he apparently told her that he would ask me out. A week after that, I saw him at a friend’s birthday party and we basically talked the whole time. He then said that he’s working evenings all weekend but he’d love to hang out with me during the day, and I said yes and told him to let me know what he wants to do.
Because we work together, I saw him like every morning after that. We would even spend hours together in our work cafeteria just talking, and every day before we left I would always say “hey let me know what you want to do this weekend” and he’d always say “yeah, don’t worry, I’ll hit you up!”
Well, the weekend’s passed and I never got a single text from him about our date. Did he forget he asked me out?!?! I mean, he was the one who showed interest, not me! I’m just so confused, why is he being so weird?

[iamaniceguy]

I was in a relationship for 3 yrs. A few mos. ago, my girlfriend wanted to take a break, and we did. She said that she didnt know what she wanted anymore, she wanted to experience college without me for a while, and that she will be going to grad school in another state in a year. We took time off, but we still talked and hung out. During the time off, however, I couldnt get over her, and I know i still loved her dearly. I was constantly in my head trying to figure things out. There were days i couldnt sleep or eat. About a week ago we had a couple really good talk and figured alot out. During the conversation, she told me that she still loves me and that she wants to get back together with me. I was really happy, because thats what I want(i think). We have been getting closer. However, she has been talking to this older guy and wants to get with him”for the story”. They’ve made out before, but I know she wants to have sex with him. I know that she doesnt want a relationship with him or anything, she just wants to experience sex with someone else, because we have only had sex with each other. She told me that im free to do stuff with others as well, but I love her and dont want to do that. This whole thing is mentally twisting me up, because I dont know what to do. Do i get over that she will have sex with this guy and we get back together? Do I not get back with her? Although we arent together, it would still make me feel really bad that she would have sex with him(like cheating). I love her so much, losing her would make me feel like im losing a part of myself.

[Jochris]

I have been with my boyfriend for nearly two years now. We recently even moved in after dating for about a year. It was all great in the start and only recently when he moved jobs he starting been very short tempered and we would have arguments every night and he would be so tired and stressed so he would say lets talk some other time. Then recently he switched jobs again and moved to another city so now we see each other only on the weekends but he’s been very sketchy lately he hides his phone and deletes messages that he says were for his sister. Regardless he said I was always causing trouble and whenever I checked his phone I would find something to upset myself and he just doesn’t have time for that anymore. Again recently I caught him talking to some lady he claims was way older than him and that he only called her to ask her advice about me. I told him I don’t want him talking to her anymore and he said he wouldn’t and deleted her number. Then I checked his emails and I found that in his sent folder he inquired about a private party and the messages were back and forth with some person and he confirmed he would attend the party and the person said bring your own condoms and booze and when I questioned him about this he just denied it completely by saying it was personalized spam. I don’t even know if I should believe him or my gutt feeling that something is definately not right here. Then just a week ago he said he wants space and that he doesn’t want to be obligated to reply and call me at every hour cause of my suspicions.

thank you 🙂

[someone0828]

Hi april, my boyfriend got mad at me because i told him that I do not want to put bangs as he wants to. then, He texted me to no to see each other anymore and delete his number. What am i going to do? hope you can help me thank you.

[davidiii97]

Ok so I have liked this one girl for a long time. I took her to prom two years in a row, told her I liked her, took her out on “dates.” But most of these things were only considered terms of “friendship.” Looking back on it I basically lead myself on by thinking we could have been something and I should have listened to the numerous amount of people who told me from the start she didn’t like me like that. But now once prom ended this year she basically stopped talking to me. I moved on. I am not by any means mad at her and understand that we are, and always have been just friends. I am actually kind of thankful, for without hanging out with her I would have never been as close to her friend. Every time she, her friends, and I went out I kind of felt detached from the first girl and connected with her one friend. She recently moved to Florida for college just as I am, to which she repeatedly told me that we’re hanging out when we’re both down there which I plan on. We have been snap chatting a lot recently and she seems kinda interested in me and we both have a lot in common. I guess my main question is how do I allow her to know that me and her friend were always just friends so that the new girl can be comfortable with going out with me. Should I text the girl that I was only friends with and confirm that we we always just friends? I also don’t want anyone thinking I like this her friend to make her jealous because that is not it at all. Please helpThanks 🙂

[April Masini]

Interesting questions!!

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