Hello,
I have recently found myself in a little bit of a predicament regarding a new “relationship” that I am entering. Before I dive right into the issue, here is a little bit about myself.
I am 20, turning 21 in little over a month, and living from home during the summer before college starts up again in the fall. I go to school in Boston and will be living there full time with roommates for a full year. I currently work in my town in an attempt to save up money for living expenses for the fall. I will not quite be a complete third year student, as I had to take a semester off freshmen year due to illness.
The last girl I dated was during my freshmen year of college into my sophomore year. She was still a highschool senior at the time we started dating, but we had known each other for several years before our relationship. Our relationship lasted on and off for over a year. I think this is all the important info that you guys need to know about my background. If any questions come to mind, fire away and I’ll get right back to you.
ANYWAYS…
Today in a store I was buying a watch and was casually flirting with the girl in the jewelry department selling me the watch. Now I have been looking for someone to begin a relationship with, but have always been too shy to make a first move or approach that pretty girl in the room. Well today was the day that I decided to fuck it and ask out someone that I did not know and would never have to see again if I was denied. I asked, got her number and name and told her I would give her a call later in the day/night when I was free.
Now the girl looked to be about my age – late teens, possibly early 20s. Upon getting home I succumbed to the inner creep in me and typed her name into facebook. Turns out, she is still in highschool and evidently not even 18 yet… I probably have about 3 hours before I have to call her… at the latest. Here are my issues:
1. I find her very attractive, but i am at least 3 years older. In 10 years this won’t be an issue, but I am sure right now it is.
2. Although we have not even made any sort of arrangement for a date, I feel as though even going out once could make things very difficult if things go well.
3. Her parents…? Enough said…
4. My parents? Im not sure how mine would react to me dating a highschool girl while I am basically halfway through college.
5. There is also an obvious issue of sex and how that would be handled if things were to make it to that point.
I’ll stop there, but I could go on. Just to clarify, I KNOW that I am way over analyzing this, but thats just part of my personality.
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