help! with ex girlfriend

[ryanhart2188]

I had cheated on my ex-girlfriend Meri twice with a girl, but never had sex with the girl. Then my ex-girlfriend Meri broke up with me about 2 months ago and f***** a guy and gave at least one other guy head. She had gotten me back for cheating on her and hurting her by breaking my heart, hurting me, crushing me, and breaking up with me.

My ex Meri and I saw each other, single, afterwards. My ex Meri ended up becoming my girlfriend again a few days ago. She said she’d never break up with me unless I cheat on her again, and I told her “I’m not going to control you”.

That girl I had cheated on Meri with had my mp3 player. I went to that girl’s house to get my mp3 player and she was with her male f***-buddy the whole time, I only hung out a few hours with them, and dropped them at the train station at like 6:30pm. I did not cheat on my girlfriend Meri.

So, My girlfriend Meri breaks up with me and ditches me for the whole weekend just because I went to the girl’s house to get my mp3 player and hung out with her and her male f***-buddy for a few hours.

I told my friend about all this and they said that Meri was totally wrong and immature and that she is just doing this to get a rise out of me and another friend said that What she’s done shows that she doesn’t care about me or shows how much I matter to her, and they mentioned how she broke up with me, over an mp3 player!

I love my girlfriend and we are soulmates and meant to be together. She had already gotten me back for cheating on her and hurting her by breaking my heart, hurting me, crushing me, and breaking up with me once.

I’ve had my cock deep in only one pussy besides hers and she’s had only one dick besides mine deep in her pussy, so we’re even. She had gotten me back.

Then, this weekend she breaks up with me, breaks my heart, hurts me, and crushes me. Make me so sad, after she had said she’d never break up with me unless I cheated on her, which I didn’t. After I have been so nice to her and good to her and did things for her and been loyal and faithful and not cheated on her.

I’ve spent almost all my money on her, been taking her out, been nice to her, gave her massages and orgasms, been good to her, treated her well and bought her things like flowers and candy. And I have been faithful and loyal to her and not cheated on her.

And she made a POF personals ad, which she’s hooked up with guys immediately from before.

I’ve been so sad today and crying a lot. I love my girlfriend and we are soulmates and meant to be together. I just want to see her and start and build a good adult mature relationship and be the best boyfriend to her and have her be the best girlfriend to me.

Is my ex-girlfriend Meri totally wrong for breaking up with me this time, ditching me all weekend, and hurting me, crushing me, and breaking my heart? Is she totally wrong? And should we talk in person tonight?

I intend on marrying this girl. She means the world to me. She is the one for me.

A: IS SHE TOTALLY WRONG?
B: SHOULD WE TALK IN PERSON TONIGHT?

[ryanhart2188]

I’ve been so sad today and crying a lot. I love my girlfriend and we are soulmates and meant to be together. I just want to see her and start and build a good adult mature relationship and be the best boyfriend to her and have her be the best girlfriend to me. HELP!!!!

[April Masini]

[quote]Is my ex-girlfriend Meri totally wrong for breaking up with me this time, ditching me all weekend, and hurting me, crushing me, and breaking my heart? [/quote]

She didn’t break up with you over an mp3 player. She broke up with you because she didn’t trust you. It wasn’t a good idea to go to the home of the woman you cheated on her with — for any reason. Not for an mp3 player. Not for pizza. Not for anything. It’s not easy to get over betrayal, but one of the ways you can is to earn someone’s trust back, and that means making sacrifices.

If you could take back that evening you went to the girl’s house to get the mp3 player, would you? Would you give up the mp3 player for your now-ex girlfriend if it would make her feel better about you? Those are the types of things you have to be willing to do.

You have to understand how you hurt each other and be really willing to change your behaviors if you want to get back together.

[quote]Is she totally wrong?[/quote]

No. She’s not totally wrong.

[quote] And should we talk in person tonight?[/quote]

I don’t know. It depends what it is you want to say. If you’re interested in making changes and you want to tell her that, then maybe she’ll hear you out. But unless you both want the relationship to work, it won’t.

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