Hey guys, why i am not getting any girl friend?

[Joshbrown2012]

I am now over 18 and looking for the girl friend.

Feeling pissed off, my all friends have girl friend and they go out with them. I love to go out with my school friend but feel so alone and lonely. I like one girl but never have capability to impress her or tell my feelings. I want to share all my feelings to her but i never get a right time for that.
I shared my thought with my friends but they don’t give shit about me. Then one day, finally i shared my feelings with my mom and she said, find the solution on the internet and she gave me some video links and i start watching them. Some of them weren’t that much interesting and helpful to me but one i really like is “Magic of making up” and it’s help me a lot to increase my confident level and helps me to think positive.

Now, I think forum is the good way to ask questions to people and they also can help me out to find a right solution. I know, it sounds silly but believe me I really don’t have any idea about girls. I love to involve in relationship now because life is getting bored and lonely. Please help me out, if you have any solution for this.

Many thanks in advance.

[hedgeboarder]

There isn’t really any magical way to get a girl.
I’m 20 and I just got my first girlfriend– sometimes patience is the only way.

If you really like this girl you need to make the right time. Or, go the social awkward route like I do and just sort of blurt out “I like you, maybe we could go out later this week(next week, etc.)”

If she says yes, great! If she says no, oh well.

Trial and error and patience are all the advice I can give.

Good luck.

[hsmith7113]

The person above is right, there isn’t a magic tell how to get any girl/guy out there. I would suggest to be yourself, don’t try to impress her with things that aren’t you. Before you can do anything you have to go talk to her. Rejection hurts, but you have to put yourself out there..
Best wishes

[kai]

Hi, I notice that you have placed your question in the forum for Guest Writers and Advice Column Contributors.

This is not in the forum where April responds readers questions.

If you want to get a response from April, please repost your question in the Free Expert Q & A Relationship Advice Forum with April Masini.

[April Masini]

Happy New Year! Let me know how things are going for you. 😉

I am here to help, and happy to answer any questions you have. 😀

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