How can I encourage him to do better?

[terriblytorn13]

My fiance is not pulling his weigh in our household. It makes me depressed and resentful. I’m not sure how to encourage him to do better. He still says he loves me, thinks I’m beautiful and desirable. However he doesn’t take care of the housework. He doesn’t participate in our household finances unless it’s to spend. He is a stay at home Dad and I work full time. How can I get results without being a nag and triggering a fight.

[April Masini]

Please re-post this question with your original July post about this [i]exact same situation[/i]. I’ve already written you about this situation about half a dozen times, so I’d like to see all of the posts (yours, mine and everyone else’s who’s chimed in to help) on this relationship issue in one place. 😉

When you re-post this with your original post, I’ll answer this there! 😀

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