How can I get reconnected?

[vinukilove]

Hi April,

I was interested in this guy for more than 2 years, But I was not sure whether I really do love him. We are from the same town & church. Both of us are members in a club & that’s how we used to be in touch.9 months back I started realizing that I really do love him but was not aware about his feelings for me.we started getting closer to each other than what we used to be (text, call each other) and I was trying to give him all the clues that I like him. One day suddenly (6 months back) he asked me whether I do Love him? But i didn want to say yes at once so I simply said I don’t know & asked him why he’s asking like that. Then he said he felt it & when I asked him whether he loves me, he also gave the same answer saying I dnt know.

Few months later he started getting busy with his work & we lost contact, we didn even meet each other.He doesn’t even come for club meetings anymore & has become Inactive.But in some cases we accidently meet when we travel to city. I really like spending time with him & whenever I meet him I ask him to come for meetings but what he says is that he’s busy with his studies and work.I was for sure that he loved me too sometime back because once he has said to one of the friends (a guy) in the club that he likes me, but bit nervous of asking me out, knowing how i would react for that…since he doesn’t want to lose the friendship we anyway used to have.But this mutual friend of us even knows that I like this guy.

But now the situation is so bad that we don’t even meet each other regularly and dnt even talk.I’ve tried so many times to get this guy to attend even for the meetings, he shows he’s willing to come but because of his studies he says he cannot make it and he’s been busy all the time.

I really wanna know whether he still loves me & whether we are still capable of going for a relationship. Also I need to know that how i can get him connected back? how can i get in touch with him again?because i really need to express what I feel for him without getting hurt and before it gets too late.

Please help me April, what can I do?

thanks,
Luv Vinuki

[womenknowledge]

It’s sometimes the case when two people are in love but, hesitate to say how he or she feels. One of the reason for this is the fear of rejection. In our society today trying to talk to opposite sex is not what it used to be. We have become isolated in expressing our feeling. My advice to you is to write this man a personal letter, not email letter is much personal. Expressing your feeling to him with confidence and believe. I think he will be proud to read your letter and eventually open up. One thing you can do is to figure out is what both of have in common. Commonality is very important because you have something you can share and enjoy. Playing the mind or guessing game will not solve your problem, just my advice haha;} You can do it and let me know. Wish you all the best.

[April Masini]

Please post your questions once and under the same name. I’ve already answered this post. If you post each question only once, you’ll get all your responses from me and other readers in one place! 😀

Thanks.

[vinukilove]

Sorry I was not registered before and it was my first time to this site. so was bit confuzed. It want happen again
😆

[April Masini]

Thanks! 😀

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