Im having no sibling but i have always loved my cousin more then a sibling or even more then my parents . she has 2 sisters . which are an year elder to me and she is 7 yr elder to me . she is married now and has daughter . me in my life always gave priorities to her since my childhood but she never responded to me as such , may be because we were not able to live near to each other, but from last 5 year as i shifted near for studies i use to meet her very frequently . and as always showed lots of efforts towards her , but she never showed and king to responsive effort toward me and i always felt being neglected because she always shows attention towards her daughter and husband . she never gave value to me or respect but i always neglected , while thinking that time will alter every thing . but now i m totally broken up . i know husband and daughter are important to her but does that mean she doest have to show responsive behaviour towards any one or one who always thinks for her . doesn’t the other persons want the same or may be a bit of efforts from her side . is this enough that im her brother and i shouldn’t expect even a bit from her and should understand every problem of her despite she hardly show interest in my problems . i always showed attention towards her talks , her likings , her values and has given respect and value to her but she always did contrary of all this things towards me . she doesnt show much attention towards me when she is going good with her husband and communicate bit more when she is having fights with him but i always predicted that what she says to me is indirectly said to her husband … and that make me feel like neglected ….im not talking to her these days because every time she do some thing that hurts he or my values . cant she give me my value in her life . should i continue with this relation or she would never change .. my friends some time says keep on efferting but till what time ??????? and even i do do i have to get hurted by her behavior . cant she see my effors and cant she see that how much i love to her . probably she noticed but doesnt come out with her responses towerds me , doesnt she feel that i might be getting annoyed by her responses . please tell me …….. thanks
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