How crazy am I?

[nervene]

I could really need some help here.. I’m such an idiot.

I sent this guy a text asking if he was doing anything tomorrow. After two hours I sent another text because he didn’t answer. I saw he had been on facebook after this but was not online when I was. So after another hour without an answer, I called him. Four times!! No answer. 🙁

I feel so stupid, because I really don’t think he’s avoiding me. And I called him four times… FOUR TIMES!! In like 20 minutes.. Just to show how crazy I am… 😳 This is really not like me. I almost called again to tell him sorry for calling. Thank God I didn’t!! When he sees his phone he’s probably never talking to me ever again.

A few days ago I asked him (over text) if he was interested in something serious and what he felt about me. He told me he liked me a lot and want a real relationship with me. The reason I asked over text is not because I’m afraid, but it is sometimes easier to be honest when you get some time to think about the answer. Deep down inside I know he’s not lying, why would he lie about having real feelings for me? We have been going out for too long for him to “play me”. But there is still something that makes me unsure about him, that’s why I wanted to talk to him tomorrow..

Can someone please tell me how stupid I am for being unsure about how he really feels? When he tells me he likes me. Or can I be right, do guys lie about their feelings?

I’m just scared of getting hurt..

[cpht2010]

Hey going through the same thing. I was about to post a similar situation like yours. I been with my guy for 4 years and have kids. I use to be in a relationship where I got played big time behind my back this really hurted me and because of that it is hard for me to trust guys. So the guy Im with now says he loves me so much but then again I don’t believe him..maybe he says it so I can stop the insecureness and then he will do things behind my back. I officially think ive gone crazy lol. takes me out, buys me things, shows affection but can’t trust him because when i met him he was a player and now he a family guy? but time to time he compliments these girls on his facebook..its hard to trust a guy…sometimes i create situations in my head that he might be doing..god knows i love him but i wish i can get some help with this negativity i think through…good luck

[April Masini]

If you’re scared of getting hurt….. then don’t chase men. When you chase men, the way you’ve been doing, you don’t give them a chance to ask you out. When they ask you out, you know they’re interested in you — at least for a date! If they don’t ask you out, chances are, they aren’t interested in you.

This guy has never taken you out, so you need to judge his behavior — he isn’t into you.

My advice is to stop chasing guys! 😉

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