How do I get him Back

[RitaluvsPeter]

Hello, I have been with my Boyfriend for 2 1/2 years, we have has some issues for roughly 8 weeks and he broke up with me just this past Sunday. We lived together we are in our 40s. I love this man with all my heart and soul and he loves me too, I know this because he told me just last night when he came to get some of his things. We had a GREAT relationship until I became insure because I could feel him slipping away, I reacted the only way I knew how and that was to “protect” myself. There were harsh words, and angry confrontations on that Sunday, and after there were calls and texts to try to get him to talk to me. I know in my heart that God put us together and we even called our connection ” two puzzle pieces that fit together”. I am going to do every thing I can to get back what we had, and I am asking you for your help.

[April Masini]

You said that he left you because you were “slipping away” from each other. What changed in the two years that you were together to cause him to lose interest? What have you done differently and how do you behave now in comparison to how you behaved when you first caught him?

Two years is a significant time to be together, so there has to have been changes that caused him to leave. These are what you need to look at in order to get him back.

Let me know if that helps, and how things go. I know you’re in pain, but don’t react and act hastily. Be thoughtful.

[RitaluvsPeter]

Hello April. Thank you for your advice a few days ago and I wish to tell you that I am looking at the issues that drove us apart. I found a group called “Mind, Body & Spirit” which is geared towards working on self-esteem issues, issues regarding “less than desirable” personality traits and ways to correct them for good. Also there is a health program that addresses weight and eating habits. As I mentioned in my 1st question, my relationship just ended after 2 1/2 years and I love this man with all my heart and soul. I want him back with me and I know it will take some time and a lot of work on my part to accomplish, I was wondering if you had any suggestions on Reading material that will help me out in this area. I have seen MANY sites on “Get your Boyfriend back” and Im just not sure which is the best for me. Any suggestions will help,

Thank you very much for your time.
RitaluvsPeter

[April Masini]

I’m still not sure what issues you have that changed in your relationship, but I can suggest you read Think & Date Like A Man, which is a book I wrote for women who want to find, get and keep Mr. RIght. You may figure out some solutions that you’d not known about before, in this book. You can buy it on Amazon.com, the Barnes & Noble website, or else right here: [url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url]. It’s an automatic download and only $15.95, so the downside risk is low!

I hope this helps. Let me know how things go.

And follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter. 🙂

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