How does one approach a waitress????

[Rangifer]

Hi and compliments of the season. The company at which I work recently had its yearend function in a little restaurant to which I’ve never been before and as these types of functions go this one was no different except for I would like to ask the waitress out to coffee, but how? She probably meets plenty of people daily and I’ll put good money that she gets ‘hit one’ by stacks of guys. Not to over think thing but can it possibly be as simple as going to the restaurant one morning, ordering a coffee and at the end asking her if she’ll join me for one sometime? Oh crap, what happens if she isn’t the one serving me? It can’t be too ethical bothering someone, you hardly know, at work only to ask her out to meet and greet.

What to do????

[April Masini]

Gosh — you really ARE over thinking this. All you have to do is go to the restaurant, strike up a conversation and ask her if you can have her phone number. 😉 If she gives it to you, then call her up, chat some more, and ask her out on a date. 😀

[Rangifer]

Earlier today, as fate would have it, a colleague/friend of mine invited me, to later in the week, meet for coffee at the restaurant mentioned above. This now provides me with an opportunity to visit the restaurant. Should I use this meeting to ask her, the waitress, out for a drink some other time e.g. when I pay the bill, ask … or should this meeting just be used as a time familiarize my face with her a bit more?

[Rangifer]

Earlier today, as fate would have it, a colleague/friend of mine invited me, to later in the week, meet for coffee at the restaurant mentioned above. This now provides me with an opportunity to visit the restaurant. Should I use this meeting to ask her, the waitress, out for a drink some other time e.g. when I pay the bill, ask … or should this meeting just be used as a time familiarize my face with her a bit more?

[April Masini]

Ask her out!

And…. you should buy the book I wrote for men who want to win with women. It’s called DAte Out of Your League, and you can purchase it here: [url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url]. It’s going to give you a lot of extra help with this woman. 😀

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[Rangifer]

So summing up … at the end of the little get together with my friend; walk up to her, introduce myself, tell her I know I’m a stranger but I would like to take her out to coffee sometime.

[April Masini]

Did you get Date Out of Your League?

[Rangifer]

Hi

The business were I work is situated inside a compound with some private residences. Over the past couple of weeks one tenant, in particular, has caught my attention but interaction has, sadly, been limited to the exchange of a polite wave. Mostly as we drive past each other on our way to work. I have asked around and we are both in the same profession (different companies) and I deduced she is single.

The question now arises; how do I make contact with her? I have a friend living on the premeises maybe I could ask him to introduce us or arrange a meeting. Maybe I could get her attention next time I see her and run over to introduce myself. It’s difficult doing that as out schedules hardly overlaps. HELP

[April Masini]

It sounds like you’re having the same challenge this year that you had last year — basically, you need some help approaching a woman you’d like to ask out on a date. I recommended you buy and read Date Out of Your League, a book I wrote for men who want to win with women. Here’s the link again: [url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url]. The book is only $8.99, and I’m recommending it because I think it’s really going to help you! 😉 Why don’t you buy and read the book, and if you still have this same question about approaching a woman for a date, then ask me again. I’m more than happy to help you, but you have to want to help yourself, and you have to be willing to do the work. 😀 I’ll be waiting…. 😉

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