I dated this girl for about a month and a half, about 2 months ago. We recently started “talking” again but the same problem seems to be reoccurring; she’s not affectionate. We have only kissed once, which is really weird for me because I am used to kissing girls the first night to be honest. She is really sweet, fair, and caring and I know she likes me, but she just isn’t affectionate really at all. (Pretty much were just friends it feels like even though I know she doesn’t think that). Even when I instigate it she will sort of go along with it but I feel like she really doesn’t want too. She is a great girl and if she just showed a little more affection I would be a happy camper. Usually I would have no problem moving on and finding a new girl, but it’s tough because she really is a great girl and I am extremely picky when it comes to relationships, the only problem is the affection aspect. I’m not saying I want a clinger, but a little cuteness or kiss here and there never killed a relationship. Is there anyway to get that point across to her (I’ve tried hinting it) or is it just a lost cause? I also want to let her know I understand on taking things slow but we just need to communicate. thanks!
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