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relationship lasted 4yrs. and this breakup of 5months now. we were in serious relationship. due to my other frustration i used to abuse her, never physical but by saying bad to her. still she loved me. she had forgiven me and again we indulged in serious affair with each other. she’s now with another boy . she’s happy with him a lot itseems. she totally broke all our contacts. no means to convey a “hi” also to her.
BUT!! my ex is with her new bf from past 5months due to my misbehaviour and abusive language problem.after 4months breakup my girlfriend logs into my yahoo account and check my mails.relationship lasted for 4yrs.
for concecutive 5-6days check has been watching my inbox,outbox and offlines. after that on 7th day i got offlines from her,asking me to change my account password. as she was tempted to keep log in my a/c and c. she said that she’s least bothered in doing all this and said sorry for doing this. and also said that she herself doesnt know why she kept loggin. she said in her offlines that she is very hurt still with my past rude behaviour,my abusive language. we were in serious relationship in past 4yrs physically. she also said in her offlines that she is hurt for not being able to b my future wife as i gave her lot of pains in the past and that this new bf is keeping her happy.

guys i have changed to maximum extend. for her i have changed. she’s no more in contact with me past 4months. no sms no calls no means to convey any msg to her. absolutely zero communication. she knew that i have changed but still dont want to be with me.
she’s asking me to change my password then why can’t she herslef stop from thinking about me? does she still love me? she remembers me in negative things like how i used to hurt her. but looking at her actions in loggin my account after 5months of breakup,what does it means?

1. does she still love me?
2. as i have changed and she knew this. will she contact me every in life to know how am i doing?
3. i love her from bottom of my heart. as there are no means to contact her. how to show her my love and changes that i brought for her?

and also her password of yahoo ID contains my details.but still didn’t change her pass. few days back she threw my ID in ignore list. but then just 3days back she added, left offlines asking me to change the password as she was tempted to log in and what’s going . she clearly mentioned that she don’t care what’s happening then why she still log in my a/c? yesterday night she logged in again. what’s happening? is she on the way to return?

[kai]

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[April Masini]

It’s time for you to move on. She’s with another man and she has some fond memories of you and a bad habit of hacking your e-mail account, but she’s asking you to change your password so she won’t be able to do that anymore. Learn from your mistakes in the past so that you can have a healthy, happy relationship with someone new.

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