[Miroo]

I’ve been in a relation with a guy and it was serious till some problems happened by my family, it was manageable but he broke with me. Then we got back and broke again and got back again all of this was around a whole year.
I am sure he loves me and I was sure that I love him. But now the last thing happened that I feel like I don’t want to go on this. I know all of those breakups was because he is trying to solve the problems without committing me.
He has a lot of problems, the way he deals with problems, he has some medical problems, he is not handsome will I am much pretty – but I never cared till now
I was sure that I love him, but now I told him that I wanna quit. But deep inside I don’t know am I happy or not. I really can’t decide feeling the both feelings that I love him and I shouldn’t bare those problems anymore
I just don’t know anything, any help ?

[April Masini]

It sounds from your vague insinuation of your problems and his, that this is not a healthy relationship for you at this time. Since you’ve already broken up twice and are considering a third break up, I advise you to take that break up, and be strong enough to work on yourself before you start dating anyone else.

You can only be successful in a relationship if you are healthy and ready to be in a healthy relationship. It sounds that you have too many problems to be in a relationship right now. Love is a great feeling, but it’s not enough to make a relationship between adults work long term, as you know.

Be single for now and get healthy. When you are, read my book for women dating called Think & Date Like A Man. You can download it here: [url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url]. It’s going to help you focus on what you want and how to get it.

I hope this helps and that you take my advice and start to feel better about your life.

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