Me and my partner have been on and off countless times. He has definently changed his life around for me without me asking and does whatever he can do to make me happy. Anytime i need anything he is there to do it. But the arguments are endless. He has the mind state that certain things are okay for him to do, but if i do something of a similar matter its the end of the world. It could be a car driving down the street or a stranger accidently bumping in to him at the mall, he thinks every action someone does to him either by accident or with a purpose is meant to be directed negatively towards him. He looks at every situation as he knows and doesn’t want to hear it any other way. This has changed a little bit but not much. Whenever I attempt to tell him my feelings or try and work things out he just constantly says that Im trying to fight with him and Im trying to blame him for something or make him feel bad, when all I am trying to do is talk about things that bother me so that it will stop. Defending yourself is one thing but he takes it to the point where he doesnt even want to hear one word I have to say. What he doesnt understand is Im trying to tell him my feelings and i would love for him to listen. I do get mad over stupid things sometmes but doesnt everyone? He gets jealous when i hang out with ANYBODY other than him, weather its going to a friends, family members, whatever you may have it. He thinks a relationship should be about both people being infatuated with each other constantly. Am I doing something wrong? Am I the one ruining our relationship like he says? I try everything i can to do what he wants. But its not enough and my opinion on anything doesn’t mean a single thing. Its just an argument in his eyes. I don’t even know if its worth trying to fix. All i do know is that I cant take much more of it, It either needs to take a drastic change for the better or be done with. Does anyone have any helpful advice. I want things to work out so bad but I honestly don’t see how to do it
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