The best way for you to help yourself is to stop trying to force this to work out. Dating is a process that allows you to decide if someone is right for you or not. It sounds like at the two month mark, you’re still getting to know him, but instead of allowing the differences and similarities between the two of you to unfold, you’ve already decided you want this to work and you’re starting to worry about the places where it’s not working. If you understand that it may or may not work — and be honest about what’s working and what isn’t, you won’t be anxious any more.
The difference between the two of you when it comes to partying is a big one and it could be a deal breaker if he wants to party every weekend (or more) and you’re more interested in going out or staying in without drinking or imbibing in other substances. As for the disparity you feel about entertaining him or being interesting with him, you have to decide if this is really you and some chronic insecurity you have, or if there’s something you’re not spelling out to me about the dynamic between you two that is making you feel this way. Dig deeper — and let things unfold without forcing a conclusion. Not being honest about what’s really going on is a lot worse than realizing you’re not compatible with someone.
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