hey everyone..im in desperate need of help. Long story cut short..
I had ben in a relationship with my boyfriend for the past 4 years. He had few bad experiences in past so he was always hesitant and never said that he loved me ever. He said that i was always a friend to him but honestly speaking his actions were totally the opposite. We used to talk all nite on phone, we were intimate, i did everything for him i cared for him but everytime i asked for a commitment he wud step back. And again after few days we would start talking and pretend as nothing happened. Now, few days back out of blue he told his parents about me, his parents came to my place ( we have this arranged marriage thingy in our culture). His parents came and poof we never heard from them again. When i asked him he said that they are not willing and say that they know better and he asked me to stop pushing it coz he said his parents wont approve. I was shocked to the levels of the sky, i told him that its very difficult to accept this, why dont u talk things out with ur parents, im sure they will understand. He replied that he tried but they dont listen. I became very depressed and upset and then he said that if its only marriage that you want then fine we can go our separate ways from now. Yes i made all the mistakes, pleading begging etc but then i told him that fine if he had to honor his parents choice then ok and there i ended it. But since i was not well and became very ill ( My family did not know about my relationship), then my sister asked one of myclose friends that what happened, and my friend told her everything. My sister called my boyfriend and spoke with him very politely but he said that he had always seen me as a friend and only spoke with his parents because i said so and he cant go against his parents. To this my sister said ok fine and politely put down the fone. Wen i got to know all this i just sent him a text that i didnt knw that my sis was gona call him i apologized and told him that i have told my sister that it was my mistake and he was right. After that i txted him that it was over. He started texting me and calling me and wanted me to hear him out once. I did not reply to any of his texts and did not pick his call. He later texted my sister and asked how i was and wanted to speak with me but as i was not well, so my sis texted him that she is not well. Then he stopped. Its been almost a week and he never contacted again. I am very ill and very mentally disturbed. Please help me.
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