Hey April,
My boyfriend lives in the USA and I in Germany. We’ve been dating for about 2 years. He broke up with me 4 times now, saying he doesn’t want a relationship right now and that he feels it’s too much pressure sometimes when visiting.
About 3 months ago I’ve found out he was talking to girls, saying they don’t mean anything and that he talks to them when he gets doubts about us. We sometimes argued and he said those times made him feel we may not be perfect for each other. Every time he broke up with me we decided to still see each other. He always said he would love to see me and while I was there we got back together.
Today he hit me up saying a girl he used to talk to texted him and he kept talking to her. He said that’s when he realized he didn’t know why he kept on cheating since we didn’t have any issues. He said he didn’t know what the reason was he keeps staying in touch with other girls and needs some time to think about what he wants and that he doesn’t want to keep hurting me and feels I deserve better.
He would love to see me again and that he doesn’t want to lose me but doesn’t think we should be in a relationship right now. He said he really would like to see others but knows it’s not right.
I don’t know if he has feelings for me. He told me he loves me but is questioning how deep that love is. He said he doesn’t know what to do and how to interpret everything.
He said those other girls aren’t special, if anything it’s just something physical.
And in general what do you think is your impression on all of this?
Thank you in advance.
Aleksandra
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