[sia]

I dated a guy from my school for a year. We brokeup last year and i was the one who dumped him because i felt that he was not loyal to me. He tried to convince me fr some months and we even remained friends but after some time lost contact. I have now realised i cannot get anyone better than him and there was so much love involved frm both the side. Few weeks ago i tried to tell him that i still have feelings for him but he said he has moved on and i should too but at the same times some of the things showed that he may have feelings like he was sick and i showed a lot of concern n he was very happy and even said that i still care the most about him. Moreover i feel that when love is true it never vanishes. All our friends used to say that we are madly in love. Plz help me. I need him back

[April Masini]

Since you’re the one who dumped him, after dating for a year, you’re going to have to win him over — and since he’s telling you he’s moved on, that’s not going to be easy. 😕 My advice is to flirt with him, try to be around when he is — without seeming to be too available. Be as attractive to him as you can, which means being successful, social, fun loving, etc.

In other words, show him that you’re there for him, and dial up your game so he feels that he can’t do any better than you. 😎 This may take time and patience on your part, but because you did dump him and he moved on, you’re going to have to put in the time and commitment. 😉

I hope that helps!

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[sia]

Hey thanx for the reply. ..i know I am going to sound very stupid but now the only contact i can have with him is through sms ans maybe calls since i have changed my school…any tips now?

[April Masini]

If you no longer see him, because you’ve changed schools, and don’t live in the same neighborhood, and given the history of you dumping him and then rebuffing his attempts to get back, I think it’s going to be very difficult to try to win him back. Given this new circumstance, I think you should move on. 🙁

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[sia]

So i might seem like a totally insensitive girl with my question but please don’t judge me
So i have a boyfriend
We have been friends for 4 years and we have been dating for more than a year
So the thing is he is not good looking
Whenever someone from my family or my friends look at his picture they are like ok he is not at all good looking or you can find someone better
I have always wanted an attractive man too but after being with him i ignored that he might not be that good looking.. But these constant reactions have started affecting me a little now
Earlier i didnt but now i kind of shy away from showing his picture
Also he is a very romantic and caring person but point is he would only show the love and care occasionally… When he does i do get butterflies but other time i feel that me and him are so different and that he dosent care enough for my wishes
I dnt know what to do anymore
I do love him… Cant spend a day without him but i want things to improve

[April Masini]

It sounds like things are really good with this guy — except that some of your friends are shallow and insult his appearance. I think you should get some new friends. 😉

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