My fiance is a stay at home Dad. In my opinion and the opinions of others he should be doing more around the house. He also refuses to get involved in our finances but spends recklessly. Worst of all he is ungreatful and I feel like I get little to no credit for what I do for our family. I’m trying to hang in there but the lack of respect and sense of responsibility are wears me down. What can I do to help make it better? I’m not saying I’m perfect I need to work harder too but I’d like to get credit for woking full time and trying to help take care of the house and our boys.