I think I might love someone else?

[relationshipa1]

Okay,
So I’m with a guy right now, who I think I really love. Like, he’s sweet and amazing, and he really changed my life. He was a really good friend before, and it was a shock that I fell for him. He can to God (I’m a christian) and he was just amazing. Well, lately he’s kinda slipped back into who he was. He gets mad at me all the time, we fight a lot. Even in physical stuff, it’s not very fun because he always wants to push the boundries. He thinks I’m controlling alot of times…I’ve tried about everything I possibly can, but it just seems like we’re both slipping away.
Well, there’s also another guy. And I’ve had a thing for him for at least 2 and a half years now. He’s sweet and kind, and funny, and he’s SO MUCH into his faith. He’s taught me pretty much all I know about music (and music is basically my life) He gave me my first worship leading experience (He’s the worship leader at my church). And He’s a really good friend. When I first started dating my current boyfriend, the other guy had gone out of town for months and so it was only my boyfriend I thought I wanted…
But now the more and more my and my boyfriend get into trouble, the more and more I want to be with this other guy. I don’t even know if he likes me though, but there’s a bunch of little things he does, and I’m not sure.
But I’ve been with my current boyfriend a little over a year now, and I break down and cry every time it seems like we’re going to break up. I’ve given him alot!
What do I do? 🙁

[April Masini]

It sounds like things aren’t working out with your current boyfriend, and it would be good for you if you could accept that, and understand your true value in life. You should really be with someone who is compatible, and with whom fighting is not the norm.

However, you shouldn’t stay with someone just to have a boyfriend! If you’re looking for this new guy to save you from your situation, and to allow you to jump from one man to another, be careful that you don’t have an underlying problem of not being able to be alone! That problem will lead you into a string of bad relationships! 😥

My advice to you is to break up with your current boyfriend, since things don’t seem to be going well. I know you will be hurt because you had some good times with this guy, but it’s really best for you and your own future. Then while you’re single, flirt away with the new guy, and if he asks you out, great! Go for it! But while you’re single, also focus on yourself and your own interests so that you can enjoy the company of a man, but not be solely dependent on it.

Good luck! 🙂

[optimistvik]

I best to break with your current boyfriend and i will say wait for some time before you choice the other guy because decisions taken emotionally will not be correct. so give time keep your mind free and then decide.

[April Masini]

Happy New Year! Let me know how things are going for you. 😉

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