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Dear April,

I had a crush on a particular guy for more than 3 months now, He knows that I exist and we are friends, we used to take one class together in the first semester & he used to ignore everyone in that class just to talk to me, he would also stare at me constantly and make any excuses to talk to me or to touch me, he would poke me too and joke a lot with me, and he would always choose me as a partner for our assignments and sets by me even if he didn’t have to, at days he would ignore his friends just to be with me, and when we have a free time in the class he would talk to me constantly and we would get in long conversations till the period ends, when he sees me outside the class room he would always stare at me or bumps into me pretending that it was on accident even if it wasn’t, he have many friends that are girls but he always treated me differently for some unknown reason, however what’s sad about it is that he already have a girlfriend but I don’t see him with her often and when they are together he seems comfortable but they don’t look like a normal high school couple they appear to be more as friends, because they don’t hug each other or hold hands or anything from that sort, but they are dating. Well, I don’t want to have a crush on someone else’s boyfriend & I’m not sure if he truly likes me or is he just acting weird, the reason why I think so is because when the second semester started we had one class together however I think he dropped it or changed the period because he didn’t show up for the class and I still saw him later on that day and when he saw me in the hall way he held my hand and I turned to him, then he just left after staring at me and smiling and went to his next class, so the thing is he’ll probably stay with his girlfriend & I want to get over him but everytime I see him I start thinking about him again and it’s really making me mad! Please you need to help me, I’ll really appreciate it if you can…
Thank you!

[April Masini]

The way to stop thinking about this guy is to realize you’re wasting your time on him when there are other guys who don’t have girlfriends, and want to be with you, out there! If you consider yourself and your time valuable, then it will be easier for you to not waste it on someone who’s not going to yield any rewards for you.

So, start scoping out other guys to flirt with, and focus your energy on “doors that are open” rather than those that are closed. Make your life easy by enjoying and giving attention to men who are free to date you, and will ask you out!

I’m not sure if you’re in high school or college, but if it’s the latter, you can definitely benefit by reading my book, Think & Date Like A Man, written for women looking for Mr. Right who want to get him and keep him! You’ll learn a lot about how to get the guy, and if you apply the advice from the book, I think you’ll feel great about your romantic success! You can get the book here: [url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url].

I hope this helps. Let me know how things go! 🙂

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