If you meet someone who is out of your league..

[sung4801]

Hello!

I recently met this cute guy at a party. He is a really good catch, so I agreed to go out on a date with him. We talked for like 7 hours that day and he really blew me away. He is a pretty much prefect guy. He is 6″2 very good looking surgeon with a heart of gold. He is funny, caring and all around a very very nice guy.

The thing is he is going to move out in 8 months to other city and he is just out of my league that I don’t want to get my heart broken. Trust me, I am a very confident person but I know he is just too good for me. He said he liked me but I am not sure if I want to go down the road here. Any suggestion???

P.S. I really don’t want to get my heart broken..I just dont’ have time nor energy at this point in my life..

[April Masini]

There is no insurance for relationship heartbreak — it comes with the territory, and while I don’t advocate taking risks with no upside, I really think that if you don’t try it, you’ll never know if the two of you are compatible or not. Usually, people spend the first three months dating deciding if they like each other enough to continue. After six months of dating, they decide if they want to be serious with each other. You just met this guy, and it doesn’t sound like you’ve even gone on date number one! My advice is to get to know him.

The second piece of advice is to work on your self esteem. If you think you’re not worthy of him, he will, too — eventually. Confidence is an aphrodisiac for men. It doesn’t cost a penny, and it’s worth a million bucks. 😉

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