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October 15, 2011 at 6:32 am #4459

anonymous9192¸
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Hello. I’ve been looking for a site to ask question about some stuff. Anyway, there’s a girl in my class who always comes to me, leans on me, and stares into my eyes. She also defends me all the time (being very protective). She calls me cute names, etc. Does she like me or is she just playing with me? Also, what should I do if she isn’t playing with me in this case? Thanks

October 15, 2011 at 9:56 am #20381

shrsbppe
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Hi Confused!

I’m a girl, but I had this guy friend who did exactly the same!! And when he told me that he actually DID like me I was really shocked. He brought a whole new sense of awkward and kind of ruined our relationship since I didn’t like him back. But after this happened I tried to talk to him less but still pretend everything was normal!! Which sort of worked I guess…I’m still happy, not sure about him.

Anyways, I think she DOES like you. Unless she’s a very good friend of yours. How do you feel about the way she’s acting?? Do you think its annoying or are you liking it or anything?
If you’re confirmed that she DOES like you (and I MEAN 100% confirmed!) you should just let her know how you feel! But try to be sincere and nice about it.

October 16, 2011 at 7:48 pm #20365

NeilPearson
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~~[quote=”anonymous9192¸”]~~Hello. I’ve been looking for a site to ask question about some stuff. Anyway, there’s a girl in my class who always comes to me, leans on me, and stares into my eyes. She also defends me all the time (being very protective). She calls me cute names, etc. Does she like me or is she just playing with me? Also, what should I do if she isn’t playing with me in this case? Thanks[/quote]

That depends…. do you like her too? It sounds like she likes you.

If you like her too, then it’s easy. If you aren’t interested, just be honest and let her down gently

October 16, 2011 at 8:41 pm #20371

April Masini
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She definitely likes you and what you do next depends on what YOU want. 🙂 If you want to get to know her and develop a relationship then it’s a good time to ask her out on a date. If you want to remain friends then there’s nothing you really have to do.

I hope that helps. Let us all know how things go, and please follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: ~~[url]~~http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100001113133958[/url]. 😀
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