OK. I’ve written before. Long story short. I admit I’ve fallen for a man and the signals I’m getting are weird. I’ve tried so hard to figure out what to do and think but I just can’t come up with an answer. He calls me every single night. When he doesn’t, he’ll explain why even though I never ask. I’ve mentioned my wanting to move to another state and he has a fit because he says the economy is so bad. Others have told me that he cares for me a great deal but he sure doesn’t tell me anything. I have asked about this on another site and my answer was that I need to listen to the song “I’m not in love” by 10cc. What does that song really mean? He’s actually in love but doesn’t want the girl to realize it? I have absolutely no problem with waiting for anything he has to offer if there’s a possible offer coming. I know you can’t read minds but maybe, just maybe, you have something positive to say because I need that really bad. One more thing. We talked last night for over 2 hours. Talked about everything. I brought up the subject of a project I’m working on that, if successful, I want to help him get out of the job he’s in. He hates that job. He’s known that I’m working to help him for some time. He went off on me saying that I need to think about myself. I am but I also want to help him, too. Why in the world does the same person, in the same conversation, tell me that he doesn’t want me to move away but yet doesn’t want me trying to help him? I wish I had someone to talk with but I don’t. I’m hurting really bad because I care so very much about him. I wish I didn’t but I can’t change that. I just don’t know what to think. We’re both single. Known him well for over 4 years. If someone sees something I don’t. please let me know. If it’s that I should just forget about him, don’t bother. I’ve been trying and I’m not doing too well. Every time I think he’ll never call, he calls again. Help! Thank you.
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