[confusedone79]

Will try and keep it short. Me and by other half have been together for 5 years. There is a 10 year age gap he is 24 I and older. We both fell in love so quickly but over the last 4.5 years he has cheated on me numerous times and dumped me numerous times in the most obscene and horrible ways.
Nov 2015 was the last time but this time I didn’t fight it when he told me to go I just did. Then in Jan he came back to me begging me to forgive him told me he wanted to marry me I was the only one for him and he would change everything. I took him back.
Things have been good but last month lo and behold a female appears she tells me he has been with her he swears she was from when we broke up. Apart from that lately he just wants to be out with his boys all the time whenever were together he hardly talks to me it’s like a chore he says it’s because he is stressed and he can show it only to me but with his friends he can pretend and be happy. I look around at other relationships and feel so jealous.
Anyway I decided yesterday to end it I suppose in the back of my head I was hoping he would fight it but he didn’t all he said was my mind is blank I don’t know. so I walked. Now I am sitting here and I’m thinking have I made a mistake I miss him so much what is wrong with me

[April Masini]

I don’t think you made a mistake, and if we were friends, I’d be making sure you had party invitations for this holiday weekend, so you could be single and available. 😉 Anyone who has dumped you “numerous times” over five years and dumped you “in the most obscene and horrible ways” is best left in your past. You can do better — and you will. 😉 Decide that at 34 years of age, you’re ready for a relationship with someone who is respectful, committed and has great character. And go looking for someone with those three qualities. If you want a long-term, committed relationship, that’s what you need. Now, make some plans for the weekend, so you’re busy and active. An idle mind is the devil’s playground — get busy and start this new chapter in your life today. 🙂

[LorenBlack]

Anymore, you can find love. Let love settle in the heart.

[April Masini]

Good luck!

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