I’m confused need advice asap please

[RealLove]

My ex b/f comes down to see me all the time at first it was very backward cause it has been 6 months since i broke up with him. and now he comes to see me every 3 months to 5 months and we hang for 3-5 days the most. Lately his behavior changed again towards me. he now text me or calls me for this month everyday for this week. the first week is was everyday the next week he didn’t talk to me until the mid week. and now he won’t stop talking to me every chance he gets he text me and calls me. now all of a sudden he knows so much about woman and relationships and what we think and how we feel? it’s kinda interesting. I still have have feelings for him we were together for 2 years in a half. Do you think he’s trying to get me back? or do u think he’s just playing a game? and why is he trying to get me back? if the answer is yes ❓

[April Masini]

First of all, help me out with your math. You said you broke up six months ago — but that he’s visiting you every 3 to 5 months — how is that possible? That means he’s visited you twice (if he’s visiting every 3 months since the break up) or once (if he’s visiting you every 5 months).

When you say he’s visiting you — how far away do the two of you live? And does he just show up? Or make a date to come to your house?

Also, my advice depends on why you broke up in the first place. Two years is a long time to date, so there must have been a good reason for the break up, I’m guessing. Let me know what the reason was.

I’ll respond with advice, as soon you fill out the picture for me! 😀

[RealLove]

We were together for 2 years and a half and i broke up with him cause we didn’t want the same thing. So i stop talking to him for 6 months but during the course of the six months we talked on the phone not for long, I tried to let him go during the relationship i was working and in school and i helped him with everything even tho i was busy i made time for him. I tried to ignore him, so during the course of the next 6 months he would come and visit at my house and he lives 2 hours away from me. no he doesn’t just show up he makes like a date. And now every 3 months – 5 months he would come to see me and hang.For the past month he’s been calling me and texting me. for this whole month while he’s at work when he gets out of work and we would be on the phone all night. sometimes we don’t even say anything to each it’s kinda quite. I’m not sure what he’s doing. if he wants me back or just wanna have fun? what to do? and how do i handle it?

[April Masini]

He definitely wants to be spending time with you — but since you broke up with him after dating for over two years because the two of you didn’t want the same thing — you have to really figure out if he’s changed before you get back together with him. Otherwise, you’re going to be with him for another two and a half years, only to break up with him again for the same reasons. And that would be a waste of your time.

You have to be responsible for yourself. You decide who to spend time with and who to date. If you want a committed relationship, it doesn’t sound like he’s the guy to give that to you. If you just want someone who’s Mr. Right Now, then it sounds like he’s your guy. The choice is yours. Be wise.

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[RealLove]

Thank you that really helps. I will take that advice

[April Masini]

You’re very welcome! 😀

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