Is he interested?

[askadvice78]

We met at the club. We were both too drunk and we had sex. After he asked me for my number and I didnt gave it to him. I still dont know why, Sex was amazing and he was very cute, attractive and funny. After several days i knew that i wanted to see him again, but I didnt know how. Then one day (after a week or so) we met accidentally. He said that he was very happy to see me. We talked for a while and then he drove me home. He said he would text me (this time I gave him my number), but he didnt. Then I decided to do it myself. I texted him, that i wanted to see him again and asked if he wanted to see me. He set a date and we met next day. We talked for like 4-5 hours. Then he drove me home again. I wanted him to kiss me, but he didnt. Then I kissed him myself and he was very happy about it. He said he would text me, but he still hasnt. What should I do? Text him myself again? Is he even interested?

[April Masini]

I think you should drop it. He’s not interested. If he was, he’d act like it. 🙁 If a guy has your number and doesn’t use it — and doesn’t ask you out — he’s not interested. It’s just not a match in spite of the one night stand and the random meeting with a long talk following. It’s more difficult to understand that someone isn’t interested when they’re nice and polite. When someone is rude or curt, it’s easier. That’s probably why you’re writing me — you had good sex, you had a nice talk, and he’s a kind person — but the bottom line is he’s not interested. If he was he’d call or text and ask you out. When a guy wants to date you, you’ll know because he will. 🙂 Next!

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