Since it’s only been two months…. you have to loosen up and not put pressure on the relationship, while at the same time figure out if you both want to continue seeing each other. You’re still just getting to know each other and there will normally be ebbs and flows in any relationship, but because this is new, he may be losing interest or this may just be slowing down naturally. In general, if someone wants to see you and be with you, you’ll know it because they’ll make the effort. So, if you want to see him, why not ask him out to do something — like have dinner or see a concert or go holiday shopping…. that way he’ll know you’re interested, and you’ll get a yes or a no from him in response to your offers, and those responses will give you a good clue as to just how interested he is. 😉
Texting can be misleading because while it gives you instant gratification of communication, it isn’t the same as being together and you can’t base a relationship on texts. In general, just use the texts to make plans or give short snippets of information, but not to talk about feelings…. save those for in person or on the telephone when you can interact in real time, together. I hope that helps. 😉
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