No, it is not a good idea for you to ask him out, and here’s why: Men, instinctively, like to be the one who chases a woman and when he gets her, feels great about having won a prize for his chase. The prize, in case you haven’t figured it out already, is you. 😎 If you take the opportunity for him to chase you away from him, you’ve taken away an instinctive pleasure that this man has.
In addition, you get to find out if the guy really likes you enough to invest in a relationship if he asks you out. It really saves time in the long run. If he’s not even interested enough to ask you out on a date, then he’s definitely not interested in investing in a relationship, so let him ask you.
Now, you’re probably wondering how you get him to ask you out. No worries — here’s the answer! 🙂
Make it clear that you like him by flirting with him. He’ll get the message that you like him, and the confidence from your special attention that you’re into him, and he’ll get his own motor running enough to make the first move –asking you on a date.
My book, Think & Date Like A Man, written for women, is a GREAT tool for you since you’re re-entering the dating world. It’s a quick read, and you can finish it this weekend and download it today. You’ll learn all about the dynamics that work in dating, and tips and advice for dating smart and successfully.
I hope you’ll get it because I think it’s going to make this new phase in your life a lot more pleasurable. Here’s the link: [url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url].
Good luck! 😀 Let me know how it goes.
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