is there a point to trying to get this to work?

[relationshipa1]

So me and my girlfriend are fighting a lot lately. We really do love each other and want to be with each other but we just went through were she still loved one of her ex’s but she came to the cobclusion she needs to be with me. The thing is is that her ex is staying at her house. Plus we are arguing about how I want just one day that doesn’t involve her ex and how aparently I’m acting like a child with not just that but with almost everything I do. I just can’t seem to do anything right. Plus lately she has been doing stuff just because she thinks if she doesn’t do it ill be pissed. I want her to do things because she wants to not just so I don’t get ‘mad’ that’s the jist of it I guess. Other then she thinks the reasons why I get upset is pointless and aparently is more irrated at me then happy with me anymore. I don’t know if we should still try for this relationship or if its lost

[katdawg]

If you really do love each other and want to be with each other than the both of you would be acting loving towards each other instead of what is happening here. If she really loved you she wouldn’t allow her ex to be staying at her house knowing that it upsets you. That is not acting loving in my book. You may not be doing anything right in her book but why not put your time into someone who thinks everything you’re doing is right? I think your heart is in it but hers is not. You should consider moving on.

[April Masini]

Feelings are not enough to make a relationship work. 🙁 If your girlfriend is still living with her ex-boyfriend, she’s not available to be your girlfriend — or even to be your date! 😕 No matter how many feelings the two of you have for each other, she’s just not available and that means that the two of you are not compatible.

Make a decision, [i]and act on it[/i], that you will no longer date her until she’s truly single, and by truly single, I mean living on her own. It’s a really good rule of thumb to use when you’re considering dating anyone.

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