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Is this guy ever going to make his move?

April Masini Relationship Advice Forum Relationship Advice Forum Is this guy ever going to make his move?

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  • #955
    holbert9
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    Hey guys, I have boy troubles, I say “boy” because i don’t think this guy has got any balls yet!
    We have been friends for about 8 years and in the past 6 months, we have gone away together, 4 times with us and another girl, then once he asked me away by myself, just him and I. We have slept in the same bed before, he texts me at least 20 times a day and we talk on the phone for 3 hours at a time 3 or 4 times a week. A few times I’ve caught him looking at me, like he was going to make a move, then something always happens, i really like him, but im kind of being sick of being just friends. I want more! What do you guys think? Is he ever going to make a move? or is he gay?

    #9105
    JesseKim
    Participant

    Why wait for him to make the move? He’s probably not sure if you feel the same way. You have to be an active participant in this too. You can’t ever leave it all up to men or else it will never get done (sorry guys). Just talk to him and ask how he feels and tell him how you feel, it may scare him a little but he’ll get over it & he’ll have to give you a straight answer.

    #9111
    holbert9
    Participant

    The thing is we do have these deep and meaningful chats, but nothing ever comes of it, its like he re-assures me that i’m so important to his life, i feel secure, but when i see him, nothing happens, we laugh, we hug, he never kisses me, and we defintatly haven’t had sex. We’ve talked about marriage and kids where he makes reference to me, i don’t ever start these converstations, he does. THen like at the moment, i won’t hear from him in 3 days, i mean isn’t that weird, we send 80 texts each in 3 days and chat for a total of ten hours on the phone, then nothing for like a week, then he’ll give a piss weak excuse like “i lost my phone”, or “my phone is broken”, this happens every couple of weeks

    #9134
    irishdubeyes
    Participant

    I’m thinking this guy is either a saint or gay. Seriously, most guys when they like you, they can’t keep their hands off you. Don’t let him away with it, ask him out straight what kind of a relationship he wants with you. Don’t settle for less. Good luck.

    #31799
    April Masini
    Keymaster

    Happy New Year! Let me know how things are going for you. 😉

    I am here to help, and happy to answer any questions you have. 😀

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