First, I would like to say Merry Christmas to everyone here!
So about 7 months ago, at the end of my last day at my job before my inevitable move overseas, I told this guy (who’s two years younger than me and is a manager at another department at my workplace), that I like him (since the first day he started working at my place about a year ago but I didn’t tell him that part). I didn’t say anything because he is a manager, and at the time, I was a subordinate in another department. Didn’t want to make things at work awkward between him and I if I told him earlier. His response was one that I have seen before (when a similar thing happened with another guy some years prior): shocked, flattered, and said thank you to me. With that response, I’ve been working on setting the feelings aside since that day, seeing that my chances of returning to the US and to that workplace is slim (as of current) and not much of a chance to see if anything will develop. Just stayed friends with him, say hi every now and then on Facebook.
Just yesterday, I was writing Christmas greetings to another co-worker (a girl) on Facebook and saw that she has some photos of her and that guy in one of her facebook albums. I thought it may be just some photos of some gathering of the people at work and so, curious, I clicked to look at the album. But in that album, all she had (5 or 6 photos or something) was photos of him and her, and the body language of the two in the photos suggests to me that they’re a couple or dating, although I have no way of verifying that. I could ask the other co-workers although I’m close to some people at work, but not everyone. When I saw those photos, a feeling of uneasiness came over me. I think it was feelings of jealousy. I don’t know, But I felt uneasy. Is this normal?
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