My girlfriend and I started out as acquaintances with a mutual friend; her roommate. So life happened and I needed a new place to stay. Lucky me, her roommate (our mutual friend) was about to move out, so I moved in. During this time her husband was in jail. So after a couple months of living there, she and I get to talking and start doing the friends with benefits thing. Since we live together it was anywhere from 3 to 10 times a day. I’m not the first person she cheated on her husband with, and i’m the 2nd person she cheated with and fell in love with. Last guy she cheated with got her pregnant. She gave it up for adoption. So anyway, a few months into the benefits relationship, we have developed feelings for eachother. So then her husband gets out, then she starts playing us both and having full relationships with us both. He didn’t know she and I were doing stuff, but I knew about him and her. And for some stupid reason I stuck around and put up with the abuse and constant emotional pain. 6 months later he finally decides on a divorce and got himself a girlfeiend. So then his soon to be x wife and I officially started dating or got together. However you wanna put it. Only I barely trust her now and the love I had for her is not nearly as strong as it used to be. And the sex has gone down quite a bit too. There are days we go without and there are times I try and she turns me down or completely blows me off. (never been turned down by any girl i’ve been with) And all I can think is that there’s someone else. And she assures me there’s no one else and she may be telling the truth but I can’t help but think about the past.
So I guess the advice i’m looking for is:
Should I stay with her? If so, how do we fix the trust? And how do I
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