Hello everybody,
I am looking for a little advice because I have been trying to get back into the dating scene- and have been failing spectacularly. I think part of the problem is that just not a conventionally feminine woman, and when I try to act like one it feels very unnatural. In fact, sometimes people assume I am a lesbian- but I am not! It’s frustrating that I have no problem picking up women, but can’t seem to pick up any guys.
Clearly I am sending the wrong signals, but I am not sure how to fix the problem while remaining true to myself. Up to this point I was hoping to find a guy who liked me the way I am, but am not sure that guy is out there. I am also a little concerned that even if I manage to act demure and feminine my dates will feel misled later on when my real personality surfaces.
Any advice?