Lonely

[Lonelymillie]

Hello,
Two fridays ago my fiancé left me after a fight and heavy drinking. Our relationship is very up and down. He met a girl that night, a bartender, and spent the whole weekend w her and the weekend after that and now this weekend.
Sometimes during the week.
We own a home together so we were trying to co exist but that didn’t work out. I’m staying at my parent for now to start to heal. My heart hurts. I wonder if he will start missing me enough to give out relationship another go. What do you think?

[April Masini]

I think that since you’ve been together for three years, and you’re both in your mid-30s, and he’s now started seeing someone else, you should focus on the breakup and creating a new life for yourself. Whether or not he starts missing you — he’s left you like this after three years of dating and buying a house together. It’s not a very polite, respectful or thoughtful way of moving on — and I know you’re hurt, but really — you can do better than this. 😉 The way a person breaks up with you is very indicative of their character. Next!

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