Long Distance Relationship

[SweetGirl28]

So, I met this great guy on a summer camp about 2 weeks before I went abroad to study. I immediately noticed him, but wasn’t planning on talking to him, because I was about to leave anyway.

He approached me and we spent a couple of nights talking. After the camp, I had one more week left before my departure and he wanted to see me, so we met up in his hometown.

It was a wonderful night, we kissed and hugged and just couldn’t let go of each other. However, when I brought up the relationship topic, he kind of backed out. He said we didn’t know each other well enough to start a commitment for at least 4 months (that’s how long I was going to be abroad for).

I didn’t like that idea, but nevertheless we slept together. I refused to have sex with him, because I didn’t want it to turn into a one-night-stand and he said that he felt the same, so we kept it clean.

Now that I am abroad, I have only talked to him once and it felt strange, because he was distracted by checking his emails and he didn’t really talk much. I know he was about to leave for work and was busy, but he did take my call. He is always on a very busy schedule (this is not an excuse!), but I would like to know if he is into me and if this has a chance when I return home.

Any advice on the matter is welcome 🙂

[ebonypittman88]

Miss SweetGirl28
If he feel the same way like you do I guess he will spend time to you. He will make an extra effort just to keep in touch with you. But if you feel that you are worthless maybe it is the time to stop believing to your fantasy. Whirlwind romance is the right term for you. It will just last for a short time.

[ebonypittman88]

the immediate cue a guy is interested in you is his time and small gestures that he is extending efforts to have a communication with you.
example:
>even if your message is skeptically nonsense he will manage to reply making it a conversation.
>when time passes, days, that you do not have a communication, he will pop up saying timid little things like “hi” “how are you?” a single “…” message may mean “i miss you, lets talk”
>when he tries to put spark and momentum to your conversations, you can sense it when a conversation is one sided

in my point of view if he turns down your offered relationship, may be he is really not into it, a man’s brain have a different circuitry compared to a woman’s, when they say “don’t” they mean it unlike us if we say “don’t” it may mean “persuade me more and you will have a yes”

if you really like him try friendship and work from there or find another… 🙂

[April Masini]

I’ve answered you here: [url]http://www.askapril.com/forums/viewtopic.php?f=1&t=224618&p=245050#p245050[/url].

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