Hi there,
I need to know if I’m wasting my time on waiting for my ex to come around. I met him on vacation last year and we immediately connected. He and I live 8 hours away from each other but we managed to make it work for six months (we met halfway a few times, he met my friends and met his through FaceTime, etc) until one day he disappeared. My situation is rather complicated which makes it a little easier to understand why he left. I’m married but it’s a business arranging which will be coming to an end very soon. My ex knew that going in. I also live with my husband but again that will be over soon. I should also mention that my ex is in debt, hates his job, his community and he is at a crossroads with his career. He is also in the army and is slated for deployment in a year or two. I tried to reach out to him a few times but no response. In my last attempt, I contacted him so that he would know that my marriage is coming to an end and I will be moving out.
He is confusing me because although he hasn’t responded I notice that He still hasn’t included his status on facebook which was something he was stressing about because he hid his status when we were together because of MY status. He has also been checking an app we used to exclusively communicate on because it tells me when he last logged in. Also when we were in a relationship he would take out private loans just to see me and to take me to fancy restaurants, hotels) I don’t know what to do. Am I wasting my time or will he wise up, grow and try to contact me? I should also mention that I am ten years older than him.
The last time I saw him he was practically in tears because I was married and we were so far away from each other so I don’t think he was playing me. I think he is simple a coward who felt he had no other choice but to let go. I know In my heart that he loves me but he couldn’t take my situation or the distance anymore. Can you help me? Thank you
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