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[relationshipa1]

I’m acually just needing some insight into the female mind or inner mind.

you see for the past year, this girl that I have known for many years has been acting in ways that, to me and a few others, has strong affectionate meaning. Here are my reasons for feeling this.

ok so, for one. I mention to some other freinds of mine, both male and female but mostly female. that this one girl, I’ll call her Kitty because she loves cats, I noticed that kitty amoung all my freinds act differently.

when I IM or text other people, they often get busy or don’t get a chance to respone etc etc. but Kitty even when she is busy response back to me, she even replied to a text message 2 days after I sent it, we were talking and she didn’t respond, but two days later she did. Often it will be something like “I’m sorry this happend” or “my phone died etc”

I tell people this in a casual manner, they always resposnd “sounds like she likes you 😉 “

another case is that, she and I play a MMO (online game) together. she whispers me saying cute messages. like “hey :3” or “boo!” from some screen name I don’t know. Once I asked “hey can I help you at all” she replied “nope, just wait for you to figure out who this is *giggles*”

alot of times when she’s done this, I asked her “how did you know I was online?” she responded “I didn’t” A guy I know, who is somewhat of a casenova, tells me “heh she was looking for you.” Other times I just kinda talk about her to some peopel i knwo or co workers, in a casual way like “this weekednd a freind of mine etc etc” They ALL grin or smile at me and say the same thing “I think she likes you,” or “you too need to get together”

Now here are some things she’s done that even get me wondering myself. Often my boss calls me up to ask me to fill in for someone, like once a week 😕. One morning hoever i got a call at 6 AM, really early in the morning. and it was her. I was shocked and texted her if she was ok, she said “im fine I was just going to work.

One thing i kinda know about girls is that when they like you they may tease you alot. She pokes at me in so many ways, but she’s obviously playful about it, never mean. She calls me names and pokes me in the sides and giggles.

Lately, shes been acting alittle…interesting I guess would be the right word. while we were playing the mmo, I mentioned how I was going to make a new character, she told me the whisper her whe ni made him, I had to get off the computer for someone to use it, then she started texting me asking me if I made him. when I got back on she invited me to a questing party, the thing is questing parties are only effect if your the same level and she was like 60 level higher then me. she just wanted me to be in a party with her I imagine

she did this again a few weeks later only this time, it was alittle more interesting. she texted me OVER AND OVER asking me if I was online, then she messages me “fine ignor me ” I told her i wasn’t and she kina pouted to me how come you don’t respond to my PMs?” The system in the game never tells you if that person is offline when you try to PM them.

it’s so falttering, every where we she goes, she acts as if she wants me there with her. I get bombarded with freind invites from her, she invites me to socials and events
and virtually all types of parties, she wants me to meet all her new freids etc.

I mean I hear from literally anyone I mention this too that she likes me, I would love to get some insight into this type of behavior, thank you

[April Masini]

What’s your question?

[Anonymous]

I was wanting some insight into this type of behavior.

[April Masini]

I guess you want insight on why you’re afraid to ask her out. 😳 Lots of men fear rejection and don’t realize that rejection helps them understand which women are worth pursuing, and which aren’t. Who wants to waste time on a woman who is looking for something else in a man? 😕 When a woman rejects you, it’s a way for you to move on and find Ms. Right. So try not to fear it, and instead understand how important rejection is, and that if and when it comes, it’s a gift.

That said, dating is a game like any other, and if you don’t get up to bat, you’ll never have the opportunity to hit a grand slam. The best ball players who hit those out of the park plays strike out a lot. But no one remembers the strike outs. They just remember the home runs. 😉

If you’re want more help with figuring out how to win with women, you should read a book I wrote for me called Date Out Of Your League, [url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url].

I hope that helps. You can follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter if you’d like, and I’d love to see you on Facebook at this link:[url]http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100001113133958[/url]. 😀

[Anonymous]

To tell you the truth, it didn’t.

asking anyone out isn’t my problem, infact I can talk to girls kinda easily, exepct for when it comes to turning them down.

I’m acually just wanting to understand her bahavior is all.

I would like you to know I appreciate you taking time to answer my questions.

[April Masini]

If you have [i]a specific question[/i] about her behavior I can help you, but it really sounds like you just described and deciphered her behavior for me! 😆 What about her behavior is confusing to you — or what about it is making you want insight? I’m not sure what your question is (in fact, you haven’t asked one) because you really spent a lot of time just writing about this girl’s behavior without seeming to be confused or questioning of it.

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