Losing interest!??

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  • #1383
    jayt443
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    Hello, well to get to the point, i met this girl just under a year ago and we really seem to care for each other. The problem is, as far as interests we have absolutely nothing in common. Clothing, movies, food etc… I love that’s shes very caring but the time we spend together is getting kinda boring. Especially since of course we are on completely different sexual levels. On top of that she complains a lot and is extremely moody and hard to please.

    With that said though, i believe her to have a lot of very rare and valuable traits I would definitely look for in a wife and i think she would make an excellent one. Overall i think she’s a great girl but she just bores me and gets on my nerves half the time… so I’m torn. I don’t know if i should stick around and put up and hope i get used to her or if i should try to move on. We are both 22 so there’s still plenty of time i suppose. But i don’t want to ruin would could potentially be a really good thing (or at least the best [i]I’m [/i]going to get) with pickyness.

    #10594
    April Masini
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    Why settle for someone with whom you have nothing in common? Why not try to find someone who has those qualities you look for in a wife AND who has things in common with you and isn’t a complainer or extremely moody?

    I don’t see a reason for you to continue dating this young woman. Sorry! I think you can do a lot better. 🙂

    #10559
    Anonymous
    Participant

    oh.. i guess i figured as much. 🙁
    thx for the response

    #10418
    optimistvik
    Participant

    I feel living with a person full of contradiction will mak your life miserable so try to find some one who have the same thinking like yours.

    #10640
    April Masini
    Keymaster

    Sometimes hearing what you don’t want to hear, is exactly what you need to hear. 😕

    For some reason you seem attached to someone who really isn’t enhancing your life. If you realize that you need to be happy and satisfied in order to be a good partner in a relationship, then you’ll instinctively look for someone to date who makes you feel that way — naturally. When you both have some common interests and enjoy the life you have created together, then you’re dating smart.

    Good luck! 🙂

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