Wow! I’m glad I’m not the only one! If you’re happy, and your relationship is meant to be, then there you go! The things I would look at, is he was honest about his situation, and he corrected his spending habits. That tells me that he’s willing to change, and is doing what is necessary to fix the problem. That says a lot for his character. Financial security is very important to me also, but understand that debts can be paid off. When you get married, his debts become YOUR debts too. But, at least you know that going in to it, and not like that poor guy on the free credit report.com commercial! I say, live life, and be happy. If this guy is the one, then get married, be happy, pay off those debts, and buy a house. It’s just going to take a little longer thats all! Everyone is in debt now a days.