I agree with Athingofbeauty that this is not a lost cause — but to keep it that way you need to cool it. You’re reading way too much into a three week relationship. You need to use your brain and not get swept away just because he says or acts a certain way. He’s going to do what he’s going to do — and YOU, my dear, have to do whatever it is you’re going to do. Getting sucked into an emotional tornado is not advisable.
Regardless of what he says, you two met online, and chances are he’s met other women online, too. In fact, he may be dating them, too. It’s not out of line or wrong this soon in a relationship when you are both still getting to know each other.
Get to know him more, and stay focused on who Mr. Right is for you — and what YOU want in a relationship. Date smart, and if you haven’t already, reread my book, Think & Date Like A Man. You can download it here: [url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url]. It’s a great read while you’re working out a relationship with someone and don’t want to blow it!