mid life crisis?

[jbjb2010]

Hi April,

I just turned 40 and have been married for about 12 years. I have started to notice a change in what arouse me in the last few months, for some reason, I need a lot more stimulation to get aroused and in the mood to have sex with my wife. By stimulation, I mean props and things that turns me on. For me that’s lingerie, makeup, perfume etc… I have a really tough time getting in the mood if my wife is wearing sweatpants, baggy clothes or anything that it is not sexy. My wife has a hard time understanding this, she thinks sex should be spontaneous and shouldn’t require work! What should I do!?

[April Masini]

I would love to answer your question, but first…. please re-post it by cutting and pasting, [b][i]as a reply[/i][/b], on the string of posts you’ve already started here: [url]https://relationshipadviceforum.com/viewtopic.php?f=1&t=324834&p=356999#p356999[/url]. It’s much easier to see your entire history in one place. I’ll look out for the repost and I’ll answer you as soon as the new post is up. 😀

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