Hello. I am male, got a tough situation that needs good advice. I just met her 3 weeks ago, had our first “date” 4 days later. I met her thru some random friends, and we got along right then and there. Turns out we know alot of the same people so her friends are my friends. I’ve asked around what others thought of her, and the overwhelming response was she nice and has always been alone. (lonely?)
After our date, we went back to her place and she asked if I wanted to stay the night. Specifically noting, no sex, which I agreed. We kissed and made out, and things started to get hot and heavy…so I jumped up and left…apologizing on my way out.
Saw her the next day, where we spent all day long enjoying each other’s company. I ended up staying that night, still no sex. The next morning we did…and have every night (or morning since) ,which has been way more than I planned or expected or used to. I have since been staying with her for past 2 weeks EVERY NIGHT! She says she enjoys having me in bed there with her (so do I!) and a lot of the time, we just cuddle. I’m always asking her if she wants me to go home, but she just wants me to stay, always. She calls when she leaves work (2 hours before me) and asks me to hurry to her saying she misses me and the cycle goes over and over. A few of the days, I have been sneaking away from work early to see her, making dinner and hanging out. Is this relationship doomed?
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