[relationshipa1]

ok I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year. we’ve talked about getting married and we are very in love. well I got him a job with my dad for a few months but he saw a different side of him and started disliking him. mind you I hadn’t told my family we were together yet I told them after five months and he had already been back in school and not working for my dad anymore. I live with my grandparents and they love my bf they don’t speak much English but they really think he is a respectful guy. his family also loves me. my dad has nothing against my bf and my dads personality is very aggresive and he jokes around a lot. I don’t have a super close relationship with him and I see him a few times a month.

well the other day my bf and I were at the house hanging out with my sister and brother and my dad came later. well he joked around about somethif with my bf and my bf got mad. the next day he tells me how much he hates my dad and I told him we never even see him and things r civil btwn them and it’s not like we can’t be over there. so I told him don’t worry about it. I asked him will it affect our future he said if it got really bad yes I said that’s stupid you love me and you’re marrying me. and it would be different if my dad tried to make him feel that way or disliked him. then he said ur right I do love u no matter what I just don’t want it to be an issue when we get married. so now what? I’m 22 he is 24

[April Masini]

Your boyfriend is being very disrespectful. 😮 You haven’t written me about anything your father did to warrant your boyfriend telling you he hates your father. He’s really out of line.

It’s very common for families to not get along, but civility is crucial to family and in-laws. Your boyfriend needs to learn some manners. Whether or not everyone loves each other, there needs to be respect. I can’t tell you exactly what is going to happen down the line, but unless your boyfriend learns to be kind to you and not speak ill of your family when they haven’t done anything wrong, you’re in for a rocky road.

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