I’ve been with my boyfriend for 6 1/2 years and recently he’s been really stressed with school and everything. This past weekend he told me he’s been seeing a shrink and the shrink thinks that we need to talk more. And i think this is true but when we were talking he started talking in the past tense like “I was happy” and this starts to freak me out. so we keep talking and he says he doesn’t know what he wants anymore and he’s not sure if he Loves me anymore. I’ve known that somethings been wrong but I thought it was just that the sex was bad, I didnt think that it was our whole relationship… Please help!!!
Sounds like this relationship has a lot of problems. For me personally, I wouldn’t want to be with someone I had bad sex with, especially when they’re telling me they’re not sure if they love me.
I suggest you find some one who KNOWS they want you and love you, who you have good sex with.