my husbands suspect behavior. how do I confront him.

[cynmarie]

Im Cynthia my husband of 9 years Eddie. Lately i feel he’s been distant he is an over road trucker gone about 45 days we have 2 kids. Situation is i call him and for 3 days strait can’t get through. He. Calls me at 11:30fpm he does then states how i must be sleepy after time and tries to get off the phone. Whenever we talk he finds any reason to say well… i guess ill let you go and quickly hangs up.this last home visit he went all out with the Jacuzzi. Suite but sexy clos didn’t move him much. We slept on 2 beers and in the morning he had did what he call what he call sex and then hurried us out the room. Now i try not to snoop but i feel that if the opp is thre God must wano give you the 411 he left his phoneopen to call list.Baby was onn it. That’s me. Then there was a cynthia54 on the list he had called. When he was about to leave he called it but it was short and i couldn’t catch a word. I did notice. That he seem to go to the same place last 3 times and either got stuck there or went by. Could be coincidence so i can’t run with that but im worried about this. I was ready to try and stop worrying and i see a transfer from an account of Cynthia l Daniels where she transfers20$ to his checking acct mind that i have an acct in the same bank as him and we transfer through our phone app in seconds. Now im wondering why would tis other person be linked to his acct. Plus its the best i got to go with if i talk to him of it but im debating if i wait and see if anymore htappens with them on the accounts or see if they’ve been in touch.
Y husband is slick and always has a good explanation that you just can never catch him. Should i talk talk to

[April Masini]

There’s an old cliched saying: Where there’s smoke, there’s fire. And cliches become well worn because they’re used over and over again — because they’re true.

It sounds like you don’t trust your husband and he’s cheating on you. It also sounds like you aren’t sure you should talk to him about this because you think he won’t be truthful.

If he didn’t always cheat on you, then there was a reason for his starting to cheat. There are lots of reasons men cheat, but it doesn’t happen in a vacuum. My advice is that you try to be the best wife you can be and entice him in a way that will want to make him be loyal to you. 😎

If the cheating becomes chronic, there’s not a lot of hope for your marriage. 😳

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[cynmarie]

I try to keep in touch with him everyday. Last night like the night before he kept sending me songs on the youtube about how he felt about me. Last night he was supposed to call but he didn’t so i called him late night of course we talked a few and then he said his phone had bad signal. He said go tell that man he can come over now. This Guy he thinks i cheated with last year. He brings him up. Says tell him not to take my stuff. I told him maybe he got something to hide sinceHe keep getting at me for that. He says he has no way of having someone on the sideline because he too busy working. I wanted to ask about the girl who deposit money to his bank who he called for hometime. I held back. I think when he come back in 4 weeks i will.

[April Masini]

Good luck! 🙂

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[cynmarie]

By the 23 of August he will be home. He tells me he can’t wait but i don’t know he has this idea now that he wants to get a place in north. Carolina because that way he can say he lives there and so he can have.better job lineup. Which means more money i keep stressing that its not a good idea. Also he jokes around a lot. He told me he has a girl in another state and he chose one with the same name as me to not get us confused or mess up. Then he says im just kidding. I said to him it could be true. I asked him if c.d. meant anything initials of the girl. He says no to that and to the last 4 numbers of her bank account. Im just trying to get the house ready for him and wait n see what happens.

[April Masini]

Good luck!

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